WHEN DAUGHTER IN LAWS MOHTER IS SO HAPPY WITH HIS SON IN LAW AND TREAT HIS SON IN LAW MORE THAN A SON , Y CANT THE MOTHER IN LAW TREAT HIS OWN DAUGHTER IN LAW AS THEIR DAUGHTER , Y THEY ALWAYS THEY HAVING PARTILITY, EVEN THEY DONT LIKE THEIR SONS GOING TO HIS INLAWS JUST FOR A VISIT, Y IS THIS SO , WHEN THEY WANT THEIR DAUGHTER IN LAW TO WORK LIKE A SERVANT IN THEIR HOUSE ( IN MOST CASES)EVEN IF THEIR EDUCATED Y THEY BEHAVE IN AN ORTHODOX MANNER. PLEASE REPLY,
2006-10-11 20:50:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
YOU MISSED 'NOT' IN YOUR MAIN PART. THE ANSWER TO QUESTION IS PURELY ECONOMICS, IN INDIA. IF 'D-IN-LAW' ALSO STARTS EARNING, EQUATION WILL BE DIFFERENT.
2006-10-13 03:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happens when they are to attached to thier son. Usually the son is a "Moma's boy." The parents have their son up so high on a pedistal that they don't think his wife his good enough for him. IT wouldn't matter who the girl is....it just would not be possible for her to be good enough. Honestly the parents in the case have a serious problem. And like the old saying goes, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder." So do your best to stay away from them ..... only go around them when it is absolutely necessary!
2006-10-12 04:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by Godsent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You normally find these situations in Asian countries in Europe too.
Thing is that no woman can share her love with anyone and man is the only passion for a woman regardless of there relation. It could be her father, Son, brother or hubby.
The other thing is that they might want to show superiority in a sense that she is the mother of groom. This entire attitude can be changed if girl wants. She can change everything with love and care.
2006-10-12 04:03:32 · answer #3 · answered by nas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there this is so easy to answer ......mother-in-laws of sons quite simply dont believe that no woman is one good enough for her precious son ........and that she cant cook as good as her or clean a house as good as her ....its the fact that they cant except that there little boy has growen up and turned into a supposed man of the world .....as a daughter in law i was never able to make the mark that she wanted even though i was the mother of her grand children ......it never would be excepted by her and im sure there are alot of other motherin laws out there that are the same !
2006-10-12 03:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
mom in laws think that we have taken away their sons from them and daughters are now gone to some other house as the distance increses and out of jealosy of some other female(bahu) coming in their family,they think we take away that boy.and daughters start showing more concern and love and thats why thoses sis-in-law cannot be happy in their families and they donot let their mother and bhabhi happy even.
so ther two females(mom in law and sis in law)make a group against the female(bahu)taking away the son.as son starts showing more concern to is wife.
2006-10-13 05:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by i m ur fren 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mother is the best mother in law. Her two daughter in law gets more love, care, respect and attention than they might have got in their parents home.
2006-10-12 10:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by goodbye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is traditionally eternal harassment which u have to initiate to prevent these wrong concepts in future by putting an example of a good mother in laws in your own life
2006-10-12 04:28:22 · answer #7 · answered by Narayan P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT IS NOT ALL WAYS THE CASE .MY DAUGHTER IN LAW IS MY BEST FRIEND . I TALK TO MY SON EVERY DAY .BUT SHE AND I TALK FOR HOURS EVERY DAY . I LOVE HER .
2006-10-12 04:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by tia c 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋