There is this guy I work with, I know he likes me and there's no confusion about that, the thing is he does not want a relationship, he is resently divorsed and he really doesn't want to start a relationship, we talk and hang out alot, but he also talks to other girls, I though to myself what ever he can do what he wants i do my own thing to, so lately I we haven't talk much, today at work he comes to me and asks me if I was mad at him for some reason, adn I said no cause I really wasn't, and the fact that he asked me opset me a bit, cause I am thinking he doesn't want a relationship so why shoukd he care if I talk to him or not. So I guess my question is what should I do about, should I still keep talking to him, should I even care?..... He is a really nice guy and all but I just don't know what to do or even react to this..... I don't even know if ti will be worth making him jelaous or making him be with me.... I am clueless please help.........
2006-10-11 20:47:02 · 8 answers · asked by jayden 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He just got out of a marriage he is looking for a rebound. Nothing serious just someone to fill in the void. Whether he knows it or not.
2006-10-11 20:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should really be thinking that dating a guy from work isn't a good idea. Being friends is great but you really don't want to open up a can of worms by dating a co-worker.
2006-10-12 04:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by Jack B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! If he just got divorced you think he wants to get serious again? Heck no, guys like that want to have "fun" with girls! So my advice is to ignore him outside work and look for other guys that will take you seriously! Good Luck!
2006-10-12 03:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by xSilverStarx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your mad at him now. Just because he asked if you were mad? And why the hell would you want to make him jealous? how can that help anything? Women are always playing with a mans head.
2006-10-12 03:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by Brother Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can still keep talking to him. but maybe seem him as a friend more than a romantic partner. if he says he's not ready for a relationship, then it doesn't matter how much he likes you.
2006-10-12 03:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by You'll Never Take Me Alive!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know this one......he wants to have you in a relationship to him & not visa versa?-dont make me play your mom...but,what would she say? mine would tell me to tell him-and if i didnt feel comfortable being that open w/ him-well theres your answer-.....youll find him someday-youll still havce to train him-but hes out there(just kidding)
2006-10-12 03:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by nickname4anne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are playing with fire dealing with a RECENTLY (rebounding) divorced guy on YOUR JOB for heavens sake. Please stop now.
2006-10-12 03:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by kabnab1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a guy so he just wants sex. So it depends on what you want.
2006-10-12 03:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by skin flint 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋