2006-10-11 20:40:35 · 51 answers · asked by end 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
it may that you partner is shy enugh that he/she is not able to initiate......but someday you both have to start doing this.....so its better you initiate it........if you are a girl.....then its easy for you to just seduce him to make love to ya.....jus sleep in small nighties or do some crtazy stuff that ur partner cant resist....
2006-10-11 20:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by DeAd MaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo have you tried CPR, checked for a pulse or have you just been duped. Maybe marry an out state person, like from another country looking for a free pass. Sorry but I don't think this is happening and if you have to Email the world to ask why your still a virgin after 2 months of marriage maybe you should check into a hospital and find a horny nurse you'll be all better!
2006-10-11 21:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello,
no offence but thats terrible. u should talk to ur sole mate in this regard. i mean what the hell. is he/she all that busy that he/she cant even give time to love making.
if its not because of busy-ness and because of the fact that u dont know how to, then try google, for help. there is a lot of material on this matter.
or ask a very close and personal friend about it. there must be some reason why u r still a virgin. maybe because u two are too shy to get going or something. one has to take the courage for the first time.. then the things just get going ;-)
2006-10-11 20:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by CheeGe Bhai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need answer and that is the reason why you write this right.? you can not get one with this phrase you put up. Please be more detail as in be specific to people so that they can give you ideas on how to conquer what you are going through now becos is a problem. How can you be marry for 2 months and you are still a virgin in your matrimonial home. Thank you.
2006-10-12 00:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by logirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can imagine the "samplers" and fornicators celebrating their "foresight". Afterall, practice makes perfect. However, more details are required to be able to answer your question appropriately.
Meanwhile, one can only go on guesswork for the probable reasons for your complaint, which might include any or a combination of fear, ignorance, unusually tough hymen, male impotence, spiritual abstinence, shyness, lack of attraction, disgust at an "animalistic thing", etc.
A friend once related his experience with a former girlfriend with whom he had to part ways owing to the impossibility of breaking her extra-tough hymen on several attempts. He learnt later that the girl had to undergo an operation to pave the way.
2006-10-11 21:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by peaceman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety dont jump into something you uncertain of.Even though you married it doesnt mean that you should go if you not ready.Makeing love comes from within the passion inside and when you feel it you know you are ready to make love to youre husband and as i can see he really loves you cause he respects you for waiting for 2mnths.Make love when you feel something is burning inside of you!
2006-10-11 21:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by badgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and find out why. If he won't talk with you, try and get him to go with you to a marriage counselor or medical doctor. Perhaps he is having second thoughts, has been abused, is scared, is gay, or is the same gender. If it's still no go, consider moving out, until he is willing to talk about it. If he won't consumate the marriage, it can be annulled. Better to find out and move on now, than spend years of regret later.
2006-10-11 20:52:01 · answer #7 · answered by Sir Ed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unbeleivable that you are still a virgin. Have a good chat with you hubby, there could be some problems whether physical or physicological. Be understanding and be prepare to wait longer.
Good Luck
2006-10-11 20:48:51 · answer #8 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What part of honeymoon does your spouse not understand. It is realy great the you kept your virginity for your maraige partner, but what is he/she wating for??? Tell him that you feel this is the time to do the thing. Come on. That is what makes maraige so beautiful. Being intimate with the one yo love. Good luck!!!
2006-10-11 20:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by amanda b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My goodness, do you talk to your spouse about this? If you belong to a church, mosque or synagogue, see if they offer marriage counseling. :You really should start off by discussing this with your husband or wife first, to see if this can be resolved. Perhaps your spouse is extremely shy--you need to TALK to each other! Open communication can be very beneficial to any marriage!
2006-10-11 20:54:30 · answer #10 · answered by sjs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooh... r u sure he aint gay?? My man took me as his the moment we said, "Will u go out with me?" I'm not even kidding! Anyway, put some sexy lengerie on and some music, give him a strip tease and if he doesn't F*CK u, then he's Gay for sure
good luck with that
2006-10-11 20:47:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋