I really really like this girl but then I'm too shy to talk to her.We're friends but we're not close...I think she only knew me by face! anyways, I liked her since grade 6 [we're in 3rd year highschool now] but still I can't do anything about it! I feel so bad everytime I see her with another guy and it makes me feel more stupid about myself. Please tell me what can I do about it...because I think I love her.
2006-10-11 20:37:02 · 13 answers · asked by Ice G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey there,
It sounds like you are in a really spot.
If she's with a guy as in dating him I wouldn't go and tell her how you feel, particularly if your shy.
Maybe you should try to become closer friends with her first, and when the opportunity arises, when she isn't with a guy and your alone say something to her. If you can't do that, do something special for her, help her out with an assignment, ask her to sit with you at lunch etc.
Well if that doesn't work and/or you feel nervous about it you might just have to write it down, although a note doesn't mean as much as words.
The only other thing I can think of is to go to a speech/public speaking course, it will build confidence and you may be able to approach her.
Good Luck
2006-10-11 20:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by Butterflies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how many guys she with does she talk about those guys with u i don't know bro some chicks will do that trying to see if u like her ask one day if you may hold her hand for 5 min when its just u and her even if its in silents .don't fall into hormones. if she asks why just say u just would like to hold a hand of someone you consider a friend. shes someone of that youve seen growing thrue child hood an hopely in the future at class reuinion will beable to exchange stories where life has takein us .
what u have to remember people who surround you as a child growing wether u conversate or not .is where everything started . u all are the the future.
2006-10-11 21:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by nevaeh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.. you have to see wether she likes you or not (likes to hang-out with you, calls you by name to join her into an activity, ask your opinion.. etc)..
there is always the danger of (confessing your love, she shoots you down, become too awkward to talk each other and lose her forever).. you may need to be there for her more often, you know be:
more helpful, shower her with jokes and good conversational topics.. before you cross that line..
but i'll go with my instinct and tell her your love.. simply because there is no sense of sacrificing your own social life for a love that won't be.. and sharing a one sided relationship while there are many fish in the sea.. is nonsense..
if u r too shy.. write it down and give it to her.. or if too coward, let someone else do it for ya!! but girls don't like cowards, remember that!
all the best
2006-10-11 20:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by KnightSaber2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah what you really need to do is to get over youre shyness and stand up for the girl of youre dream cause she doesnt know how you feel and will start dateing other guys.What you need to do is firstly get use to being her friend make her laugh enjoying each others company and from there you tell her how you feel and who knows she might just feel the same for you!
2006-10-11 20:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by badgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that u just need to get past that ... maybe u can talk to her on the computer first .. or something to loosen up.. and then start talking to her in person..and believe me u will be able too tell if she likes u or not .. im kinda going thro the same tihng right now .. but yeah .. i like this guy .. and he knows it .. but i think that he is just trying to nicely tell me that he dont like me .. cuz everytime we talk about me likeing him he always says not to and why i could even like him cuz he is an A//s/s///hole well thats what he says but i know he isnt . i just wish he wouldnt be like that and just tell me how he really feels if u have any advice on that let me know
2006-10-11 20:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by InSaNe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it hurts you 2 see her w/another guy get ur butt out there and talk 2 her. You don't always wanna wonder what if sweetie now do u!! She just might like you back plz take this advice, and just try it :-) c'mon 6th grade
2006-10-11 20:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her more
try getting her mobile phone number and sms her
go out more often
tal talk talk.........
thats the only way!!!!
Best of luck
Don't sit quite and speak out
its hard but if u just wanna get her
talk to her and be friends and be frank as well
2006-10-11 20:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by Gamesr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the girl how you feel, thats the best thing to do i know its hard but you have to over come that fear so go up to her an tell her dont be a fool an let it go any longer
2006-10-11 20:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by sneekie_snoopie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eih first make her notice you..like start by saying hi..make a move than just staying hurt everytime you see her with another guy...then be friends..do something...tell her how you feel..breath and tell her...then you'll feel better..
2006-10-11 20:41:36 · answer #9 · answered by queen_maan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. love? thats big. first of all you need to be confident. confidence is the key. she isnt going to notice you if you stay back. bring up good topics of conversation and left her get to know you.
2006-10-11 20:40:04 · answer #10 · answered by ......................... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋