I ve been hanging out with this girl for nearly one month. We have innocent flirting and eventually lead to dinner. We have had dinner and lunch together four times, and each time I let her know that I am attracted to her. I feel there is mutual attraction there,but last night I moved in for the first kiss and was rejected. Ego check and shot! She claims that we both just got out of long relationships and should go slow. Now I feel all weird about the whole thing. I am I looking to much into this?
2006-10-11 20:33:01 · 13 answers · asked by Confused Prince 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe it's moving too quickly or you had some serious case of halitosis. anyways, if that's what she says...then maybe you guys are moving way too fast. just take it slow and enjoy each other's company.
2006-10-11 20:39:45 · answer #1 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me after a month and you have not even kissed hmmm? I think she may not be interested in you like that. If you can settle for friendship be just her friend. I know I couldn't, it is very hard for me right now. Sometimes I think it is best if I never talk to him again. It is better to know now than to have this happen to you, get into what I thought the words I love you Hell yeah I really do was the start of something really nice. then right after that hear him say, "we'll always be friends. signed born2damromantic
2006-10-12 02:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by born 2 d-mn romantic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 02:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the year 2006, as opposed to 1906, if you've been seeing a woman for a month, and you haven't kissed - time to politely and amicably move along...
2006-10-11 20:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by ericscribener 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Confused Prince, she is not being fair to you. You mention she tells you that you should be moving slow. It's not her place to tell you what's best for you. If she wants to move slow, so be it. You can wave to her in your rear-view mirror. Find another woman that is willing to explore a relationship with you.
2006-10-11 20:41:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just took her by surprise. give her a bit of time to process it, slow it down a bit (hold her hand first/cuddles) and then after a while, go in for the kiss again.
2006-10-11 20:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by You'll Never Take Me Alive!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she likes u as a friend,but not as a boyfriend, tell her that if she really isnt interested to let u know so you can settle as friends but find someone who is intersted
2006-10-11 21:04:09 · answer #7 · answered by livachic2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eih maybe she's thinking your moving so fast..so just take it slowly and one step at a time...or maybe she is quite confused with her feeling with you..at this moment...so take it slow sweetie...
2006-10-11 20:37:37 · answer #8 · answered by queen_maan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably just wants to be friends you should of let her know of your intention when you first met her. maybe your to nice
2006-10-11 20:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by Pacman187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to be nice about it, but she isn't interested.
2006-10-11 20:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋