i know this my sound odd, but i have been with 4 women that have kids. i know they have kids before I date them. It just seems like I pick up the Mothers. Does anyone know why this is? Just curious...its not a big deal..right? Does this so some maturity on my part?
2006-10-11 20:30:30 · 12 answers · asked by mschwertner69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Could it be that maybe deep down you want to have kids yourself and to start a family?
2006-10-11 20:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by *~*~*BROWN 3Y3S*~*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing a little about yourself it is a hard question to answer. Were you an only child,do you have children of your own,can you have children of your own,was there any abuse in your childhood,was your mother a single parent when you were growing up? Many questions that you can ask yourself can give you the answer.I will say there are not alot of men in this world willing to take on another mans child or children there is alot of abuse through the step family environments where the children dont accept the step parent therefore causing arguements between the family.My advice to the parent is DO NOT let your child rule your life or relationship as they will grow up and leave home leaving you with no-one and i being with a man who is the step father figure can say it DOES WORK
2006-10-11 20:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either A Coincidence, Or Your Just Into Mature Chicks. Chicks Who Have Kids Tend To Be More Serious Then Chicks Who Have Less Responsibility. I Dig That. (the responsible part, not the kids...)
2006-10-11 20:35:11 · answer #3 · answered by Can't Make A Good Avatar!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well buddy just look at this way they open there legs they have kids they get dumped after that they want guys like us to father there weak minded children thats why when i date i look to see if they are hiding anything from me cause i got more to lose than a women comming to my life and then stealing every thing i work for.
2006-10-11 20:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because the mothers are so independent woman and they know how to take care of some one how love thats why.and mans feel so safe in their arms,cause they know with them can have a long relationship
2006-10-11 20:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its reassuring to witness a female that can procreate. Primal instincts want us to have good "fitness". Witnessing a women with children only reassures a primorial attraction to pass on our traits to offspring.
2006-10-11 20:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you like kids! and yeah...i guess, it shows some maturity on your part...
good luck with the moms!
2006-10-11 20:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by kosh.was.here. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking for a mother figure.
2006-10-11 20:32:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong
as long as u take good care of them
good luck
2006-10-11 20:57:02 · answer #9 · answered by 1111 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it shows something. And it isn't maturity....
2006-10-11 20:45:56 · answer #10 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋