hey there , i am 18 yr old guy from india . we are living in an area where there are tons of tourist coming. recently i fell in love with this girl who was from isreal and she was 21. so i was wondering if i should tell hwer or not as you know she is a traveller and she is not gonna stay here for ever . but still i feel like i should tell her. and on the other side i feel like if she just loves me as her friend and suddenly discovers what i feel than there are chances that we won't even be friends anymore ...
so pls help guys , what to do ?????
thx everybody for taking the time in reading this.
2006-10-11 20:30:00 · 13 answers · asked by abhinav 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THANKS EVERYBODY !!!!
2006-10-12 05:07:55 · update #1
DEAR ABHINAV'...MY SUGGESTION IS THAT YOU LIVE THE MOMENT ENJOY AND RELISH EVERY BIT OF IT...DO WHAT EVER BUT LIMIT IT TO A GOOD FRIENDSHIP...IT IS FOR YOUR OWN GOOD..YOU ARE ONLY EIGHTEEN AND THERE IS SO MUCH YOU HAVE TO DO WITH LIFE...WHAT YOU FEEL IS NOT LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT....ITS KIND OF LOVE AT FIRST OPPORTUNITY...THERE WILL BE SO MANY LOVES OF YOUR LIFE THAT ARE YET TO COME...RELAX AND AS I SAID LIVE THE MOMENT'...AND YES DON'T FORGET TO TAKE HER CONTACT ADDRESS EMAIL ID ETC..YOU NEVER KNOW AFTER SHE IS GONE..YOU FEEL PAIN AND CURSE ME FOR THIS HEALTHY ADVICE AND WANT TO BE IN TOUCH WITH HER...LOLS
2006-10-11 20:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Aww first off that is really cute :-) well um what u said bout her bein a tourist is true. She might not be there forever. But u don't wanna worry in the back of ur mind what if. So maybe u should give it a chance and I see she's older than u. Don't be scared the worst thing she can say is she doesn't feel the same way let's be friends yadadadaya!!! lol j/p hope I helped take care :-)
2006-10-12 03:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is not love it is infatuation. Love is like a plant, it grows with time. Love at first sight is rarely a true love. Give it time to nurture and then you will know whether it is love or infatuation.
2006-10-12 04:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about love, talk to her as a friend so you won't get nervous.
buy some delicious food that she like, anything sweet. a pastry would be good. share it with her,
then tell her what you feel.. just be sincere. : )
2006-10-12 03:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by keepin it real 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
TELL HER! If you will not..you'll regret it.trust me, I know.Don't worry if ever that she will dump you or whatever..at least you told her, and doing that means you're a brave guy.if she doesn't like you back..let her be...maybe she's too scared to face her self this time.take care and goodluck!
2006-10-12 03:43:19 · answer #5 · answered by Ice G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u won't tell her then always u will be thinking i should tell her so that i would have know she loved me or not. i think its better to tell, u have to take risk. Once the time gone never comes back.
Tell him
2006-10-12 03:34:33 · answer #6 · answered by akbar 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Are you really that attracted to her??? They're heaps of girls out there, you'll find another one, but if shes really that worth it, go for it.
2006-10-12 03:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by Caity 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pardesiyon se na ankhiyan milana... pardesiyon ko hai ek din jaana..
i think that best answers your questions... gud luck..
2006-10-12 04:17:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indians should not have sex before marriage. Think about your cultural roots.
2006-10-12 03:32:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
great crush Pleease coontinue ur crush dont think more than that
2006-10-12 03:50:12 · answer #10 · answered by Munna Bhai 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋