My friend has been with her boyfriend for 2 yrs and a couple of months,she's been pushing him for the next level,My advice to her is to wait and stop pushing him,when he's ready he'll do it with her pushing him he might not want to be in a relationship with her anymore.Was that good advice?Because she hung up on me!
2006-10-11 20:05:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From my experience, stay out of people relationships. Because if you give wrong advice it could hurt your relationship with them.
2006-10-11 20:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by wanttolpve 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You gave great advice, and she just didn't want to hear it. You are a good friend because you were willing to risk her being angry at you in order to be honest with her. The best friends are not the ones who stand by and watch us self-destruct.
So don't give it another thought. You did the right thing.
2006-10-12 03:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by oolishfay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to buy a cow bcoz you will start running out of free milk as you get past 40.It is wise to have cow well in time.
2006-10-12 03:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not bad advice. You just told her what she didnt want to hear. 2 years isnt that long but maybe they can try living together. Depends on the age of them. No need to rush into things though :)
2006-10-12 03:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very good advise however you did not tell your friend wat she wanted to hear. And it is a bit immature of her to hang up on a friend who is only trying to look out for her. Unfortunately it is HER relationship and she should be discussing this with her partner. She may end up learning the hard way or everything may work out for the best. You sound like a great friend
2006-10-12 03:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were very right. In relationships, things have to be mutual and they happen without pushing..
2006-10-12 03:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by Eddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's the most excellent advice in the world. The young people today are clueless, although liberalism, the national plague is to blame.
2006-10-12 03:07:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
advice, wrong or right, should never be given without they seeking it. your advise seems right but may be she is too young to understand or she is too possessive about the boyfriend she is with. you must consider few factors before advise. honey for one may turn out poison for other.
2006-10-12 03:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by Ashok Chavda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,,, your advice is excellent. However, I don't see how it relates to your question. I had a response planned for your question but it has nothing to do with what you said in your aditional remarks.... go figure ...
2006-10-12 03:08:38 · answer #9 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your humpin the guy behind her back. Why would you care if they get married. If it drives him away then he is not the one for her. Mind your own biz.
2006-10-12 03:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by Brother Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋