Why is it that men get bored with the same woman while women dont get bored with the same man.?

Question

What is it in men that makes them crave for variety but same is not true of women.Orr maybe my observation is incorrect.

Answer 1

Limiting it to heterosexual relationships, the average number of sexual partners for men MUST be equal to the average for women. So, your premise is false. That is every time a man has a NEW female partner, the woman also has a NEW partner.

Answer 2

Mile for mile, women get in more accidents. But because men drive much more than women, they get in more in the tally. Men often have driving jobs like cab and truck drivers. What really sucks for men is that all that exposure on the road is usually done in a vehicle that is insured separately from their own personal vehicle. They are insured twice. So when they get a ticket driving a big rig, it raises their personal car insurance rates-even though they are never home to drive it and cause the personal insurance any risk. The fact that they are exposed to speeding and other traffic ticket hazards (truck drivers are constantly stopped and inspected for thousands of possible violations) at least ten times more than most women or non career drivers does not mean they are more dangerous. It just means they drive a lot more. A little old lady that drives to church once a week could be a horribly risky driver but nobody would know because the route is easy and the chances of a cop being around to bust her 20 minutes a week are very low.

Answer 3

I think it's about 50/50.. women just hide it better. There's a section of both that crave variety but the reasons are probably different for doing so. Men are visual creatures and like to look at different women. Women are usually bored when the romance stops.
I have a lot of male friends and I would say most of them are ultimately looking for that one special person. After 30, I found that the men I dated wanted to settle down quickly.

Answer 4

WOW aint you polite, I lived with a cheating wife for ten years before I caught her out, I never once thought about doing it myself.
Then I lived with another woman for eleven years only to find out she had f*cked more men in our relationship than I had hot dinners!
I am not bored with women I just cant trust them.
SOME men do the same so its not good catorgarising 'only men crave variety!'

Answer 5

Honestly, this question frustrates me immensely, because I have to deal with it everyday when thinking about the relationship I'm in. I've only ever been in one relationship, so my experience isn't too extensive, but I've certainly found this to be the case in my relationship with my girlfriend.

I find myself getting bored and imagining what other relationships must be like on a daily basis. I check out other women, (sounds bad, but I'm being honest) I secretly fantasize about forming new relationships, and I express some of this to my girlfriend. She, of course, being the romantic that she (and most women are) just can't understand how I could love her and still have these thoughts.

I assure her that we're in love, but that I cannot help but try to imagine something better. I tell her that it's in my nature to seek improvement in everything, and that I'm never satisfied with any aspect of my life. I attribute it to me instead of her, whereas if I were not so kind, I would tell her more honestly that I simply don't feel as strongly for her as she does for me.

I can't say that this is true for all men, but I think that maybe men do tend to be more subconsciously full of themselves, always thinking that they can do better. Maybe it has something to do with how men are treated in our society--the ones who are given more choices and a great sense of flexibility, I don't know.

It must suck for women, though. Men are just more fickle and shallow, I think. Women tend to be less superficial, and I envy them that.

Answer 6

This goes WAY back to the early days of man. A woman craves a family, she wants a man to be there to protect her and stay with her. The man, on the other hand has a genetical responsibility to spread the seed around to quickly populate the world. The middle ground is now taboo. In the past, it was OK for a married man to have a mistress. He could have the best of both worlds and the woman had the benefit of the man being around.

Answer 7

i could answer that...what happens is men usually don't get emotionally attached as fast as women do, and most of the time they are not looking for a relationship so that makes it easy for them to get bored with one woman so then he moves on to the next....women on the other hand get attached and emotionally drawn to the man, when we start having those feelings we don't want to let go and he is all we think about...we will do everything in our power to not lose the man we love...another thing is men that mess around with lots of women are often called players...and are looked up to by others for having player status... when women on the other hand who mess around with lots of men are often called whores and are looked down upon by others....so alot of times we are trying to protect our image....men don't really have to worry about that when they're sleeping around with everyone cause its almost like they are praised for their work.... so i believe thats just some of the reasons why men get bored with the same woman.

Answer 8

I do not think that all men get bored? There is a lot that a woman can do to spice things up.

Answer 9

Looks like you are way off base, doesn't it? I'll give you a good example: A long time ago my sister was telling me that her in-laws were going to celebrate their 70th wedding anniversary and when she told me she "shuttered" hahaha.....she just could not imagine being with one man for 70 years. We all get bored, I'm bored right now, but no one here knows it. It's not something we talk about, the real difference is that men "act" on their impulse
when the boredom gets too great.

Answer 10

You a guy? If so, you'd better be a little more leery than that.
You a girl? Talk to a few more of your friends. If they're honest with you, you'll find out that you're completely wrong.
Girls run around, too. Some of them are quite good at it.

Uh...excuse me illusionist person....how many people in western society do you really think are chaste??? Comon! Really?? Really, what percent????