I always seem to attract men that are married or have girlfriends. I am tired of being the "other woman"!! What is wrong with me?
2006-10-11 19:39:23 · 16 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they are the guys you like, apparently.
2006-10-11 19:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very probable that you do enjoy the challenge or that you see married or attatched guys as those that aren't afraid of commitment. If someone is in a bad relationship it's not difficult to rise above the woman they are currently with and give the man the attention he's lacking from his wife or g/f. If you are always at your best instead of simply being one step above the wives or g/f's you may just find that single man you've been looking for. If you don't check for wedding bands while you're talking to a guy...start to. If you do, but then think...'Oh I wonder if he'd cheat on his wife?'...then you maybe need to seek some help. Try not to be in a rush to jump into just ANY relationship that happens your way, but on the other hand...what if the man of your dreams is married and wants out of that marriage?? My advice would be not to secretly see a married man or be the 'other woman' UNLESS the man has very serious intentions of getting out of his current relationship. Don't sleep with just any man that glances your way, be a little harder to get...see if he sticks around, wait for love and don't settle for lust Hunny. Best of Luck.
2006-10-12 20:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by nikkismiles7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's not who they are attracted to but who you are attracted to. You may make your self more available to married men versus single guys, cause you know down deep that married men won't be a long term commitment. You like the idea of doing something that is wrong and it excites you. Dating some one that you could have a long relationship with may scare you and you fear commitment and married men are safe in that aspect. When you get over the fear of commitment things will change.
2006-10-11 19:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I use to feel that way. I found it exciting and now I know that its just sick. I use to think that it was sexy and made the relationship exciting and I felt like I had all the control. Then I grew up and realized it wasnt fun bein a home wrecker and I never got anything lasting out of it. I would definatly give yourself guidlines like no men that are taken, that should be the first question you ask and then dont give them a second look.
2006-10-11 19:46:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not married and I don't have a girlfreind and I'm not gay and I don't live with my mom. So alright I do got some weight some of it is fat some of it is beer gut. but looks aside I'm wide open looking for a girlfriend but you know what it's scary for her I mean if it don't work out after we've given apiece of ourselves to each other wow what pain you know. So in setting yourself up to be the other woman you get the sex without the risk and no in-laws at holidays, well actually noone on holidays but hey at least you don't gotta get dressed so it kinda works out. Right?
2006-10-11 20:20:58 · answer #5 · answered by older_fat_male 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me your not quite ready for a committed serious relationships for whatever reason(s) as of yet.
But when you are, you'll available yourself to available men, and finally attract them.
Being the other woman must suck!! YUK!!
Just STOP doing that to yourself missy.
2006-10-11 19:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by Auntie Marie SueB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you stay the hell away from married men? Do you think it's funny to break up a family? There are MILLIONS of single guys all over the place and you know it. I bet you do it intentionally. A married man has to go home sometime leaving you free to find anothe one. Tramp.
2006-10-11 19:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If they were any kind of men to begin with they would not be attracted if they are in meaningful relationships...
2006-10-11 19:42:29 · answer #8 · answered by Ladeebug71 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cz they see in u, what thecant see or find in their partners..
so it seems u r being toooo nice..
but nothing wrong with..u should be happy..
cz its harded to get the committed person.. but for u its easy..
so u can start asking out the ones that are not in relations
2006-10-11 19:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by CuteeWorried 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not your fault but the single guys might think thats the kind of man you want.
2006-10-11 19:43:55 · answer #10 · answered by saturn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you perhaps pay attention to married or taken men.
it is kind of hard to tell who is married and who is single.
try not to date anyone until you know who they are.
i dont know how you do that but it sounds good. :)
2006-10-11 19:43:22 · answer #11 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋