There is this girl I have been seeing for two months. We have been a little intimate, but overall its very simple and fun. She waited til like the 4th date to say she was dating other people. It hurt, but I have vowed to myself to work my *** off to win her. She likes me and we have like 50 things in common. She seems to be wearing down. The other night, I went in the rain to her work after it was closed, and taped up a small surprise package. Inside was a few very crappy drawings and some poetry. She loved it. And now I want to win her and love her better than she ever has been. WHAT DO I NEED TO DO TO MAKE HER SEE THAT I AM THE BEST FOR HER!!!
2006-10-11 19:30:28 · 11 answers · asked by sarasbigdaddy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well....gosh there's several things you could do sugar.
Just don't be "overly attentive". You don't want her to think your desperate here, because you aren't.
The best lover's start out from friendship.....gradually.
Sounds like your doing some neat friendly gestures.
Give her a chance to give back to you.
2006-10-11 19:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by Auntie Marie SueB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. If the girl is really worth it, then go for it. But check with her first. TALK WITH HER and be sure that she knows how you feel and that she feels the same way. Normally when I girl goes out on a date with somebody, but starts dating another person, she isn't that interested. Maybe she doens't see things the way you do. The best thing is communication. Tell her exactly how you feel. I know its probably the hardest thing to do, but its either do that or see her with somebody else. Maybe try sending it in an email or a letter. Make sure if you ask to talk one-on-one its not during lunch or something. Do it when you two actually have some time to talk, so things don't get interrupted.
If talking doesn't work, then she's not worth it. Move on. There are plenty of other girls to chase.
If it does work, the best way to win a girl over is to try surprising her with little things: Give her a dozen flowers on a Wednesday, just because. Leave sweet little messages or something for her, but try not to come off like a creep. lol. Otherwise it will totally have a different effect. Another idea is by maybe picking her up for lunch and taking her to someplace that she likes and offering to pay for it.
Hope this helps!
2006-10-11 19:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jessi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your getting all worked up over a girl that dates around. You will NEVER win her. She has other guys on a puppet string just like you and they ALL think that they can win her.
Just nail her for fun like she does the other guys.
Don't waste your love.
2006-10-11 19:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be that she's just not that into you. if she hasnt dropped the other guys on her own, then dont try to wear her down. Move on and find someone who wants a guy that worships them. Honestly, not all women like that kind of attention, some of us find too much gushy stuff...creepy.
Save yourself man, if she doesnt give you what you want...move on!!!
2006-10-11 19:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by jezabella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that what would worry me the the use of the pluarl as in other GUYS?
If you are not going to be the only one? Forget her and find someone less fickle.
2006-10-11 19:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my.
She has already noticed you, she just doesn't want to limit herself to a single guy by the looks of things.
2006-10-11 19:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant imagine like u can do more...
u seem so sweet.. but u can try to act as she means nothing to u infront of her..
sometimes girls dont like the guys that keep following u know wht im talking about>?
2006-10-11 19:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by CuteeWorried 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best from your point of view. She isn't something to 'gain' from hard work. If she doesnt see your way, sorry.
2006-10-11 19:33:44 · answer #8 · answered by leikevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EARN SERIOUS MONEY. THEY ARE ALL SISTERS UNDER THE SKIN IT IS JUST THE PRICE AND METHOD OF PAYMENT THAT DIFFERS. UNLESS SHE IS FAT UGLY OR RELIGIOUS MONEY WORKS EVERYTIME XX
2006-10-11 19:35:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut your head off in front of her that will make her notice you
2006-10-11 19:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by Spadesboffin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋