My friend has been seeing this guy for over a year and he is always asking her for money. He never takes her on a date, they never go to each others house, they always ride around; mostly at night time and they have sex in her vehicle! She says she cares about him, but i feel like he is just using her.... What do you think?
2006-10-11 19:26:07 · 15 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why isn't she asking these questions? Been there done that. You are right he is using her and she is setting herself up for a lot of anguish. He has someone else that she doesn't know about or doesn't care about. If she enjoys being a booty-call and a surrogate mother let her. She'll learn the hard way the same way the rest of us have.
2006-10-11 19:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by Mae G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drugs. No job. Just because he can.. if someone gave me money everytime I asked, I would ask too. Maybe he's homeless and doesn't have a place to take her or perhaps he's a wife at home.
Either way your friend must be either really desperate or really stupid. That's not the way a woman should be treated no matter what he does for her. He doesn't seem to be doing much for her anyway except shagging her in the car. Does she care about him or the fact that he is stopping her from being alone sometimes?
2006-10-12 02:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive the pun, but it sounds like your friend is being "taken for a ride".
Offer her up the following questions:
Does he remember her birthday/anniversary/class schedule?
Does he ever eat "lunch" with her - during the day?
Does she always have to pay - for both of them?
Are all of his calls booty calls?
Has she ever met any of his friends?
Does he spend more time with other women than he does with her?
Does he only call when he needs a ride someplace?
When he says, "I (love,like, care about) you," does she believe him?
If she answers yes to most of the above questions, it may be time for her to move on. I'm sure she deserves better. Hopefully, she also believes that she deserves better.
2006-10-12 02:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by JM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he is honey. that is quite sad . how can she love someone that thinks of her as a human atm. she should ditch him and find a nice man with money to spend on her or just be by herself and be happy. sex in the vehicle? what the hell is that about. so he thinks of her as a cheap trick. grr this makes me angry she needs to just cut his d... off . im sick of this lame men.
2006-10-12 02:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by cha cha pop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a mooch and a loser- she needs to kick him to the curb and get a life- there is no future there for sure- I hope she removes the blinders of this infatuation- and gets on w her life and does not go out and dind another model like him-
2006-10-12 02:30:48 · answer #5 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a bum and that is all he will be. He's using her. The easiest way to prove it, is for her to tell him her car is broke and no money to fix it and they have to spend the next few weeks at his house whan they hang out together. I'll bet he will run away fast.
2006-10-12 02:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using her.
2006-10-12 02:29:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sex must be good because nothing else about this clown is.
2006-10-12 02:28:23 · answer #8 · answered by saturn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The PIG is using her, he's probably got a wife and kids tucked away somewhere...
2006-10-12 02:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by Ladeebug71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a bum and he found a play toy until he finds someone else with more toys - she needs to dump this loser and move on-- girls have no business supporting their man- that is no life for her to lead--
2006-10-12 06:16:50 · answer #10 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋