Well, I am a 21 year old male from India.I have done till XIIth STD.I totally frustrated with myself and i feel like ending my life tommorow.Here are the reasons which have made my life unprecious.
1] Communication Probelm - this is my main source of depression.I have developed speech disoder since the age of 15 and i am not able to pronounce the words correctly both of my local language and English.Secondly i become totally "MUM" or i have nothing to say to the people.Even if i say something it does not make any sense to them and they just ignore me and also they can't understand my speech at one time.I hav repeat my words 4-5 times.I hav also developed Hearing disorder 5 years back.I can't afford to see a speech pathologist,
2] I am lonely - I hav no friends at all in my life.Whenever i tried to make friends everybody just ignores me.Whenever i try to mix up with other in a group they just go away bcoz of my presence between them.
3] I am financially poor.
wht to do ?
2006-10-11 19:12:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
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2006-10-11 19:22:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
I have a similar speech problem, probably got it for different reasons. First thing I would suggest is talk less. Meaning, don't say anything in an uncomfortable situation unless you know exactly what you're thinking, and then can put it in words. If you already are being shunned for your current communication stylings, this will be an improvement. Second, compensate with your appearance. Lean the word vanity. People are cruel, but they make exceptions when you're good looking. If you're overweight, quietly lose the weight. Work on any acne, comb your hair. And if you can't afford expensive clothes, wear plain clothes and keep them neat. Then find something you are truly good at or REALLY enjoy, and milk it for all it's worth. Learn about it, perfect it, and find more people who like or do the same thing (you have internet obviously, that will help). And whatever you do for a living do it well, better than your peers. And finally, don't beat yourself up, and be patient. Make these changes like it was your hobby and don't worry about the results yet, just the task. Before you know it, the problems you mentioned, seem to be less of a problem. The whole trick is to take steps backward, lower your expectations temporarily, and take care yourself first.
2006-10-11 19:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by ptlewis1974 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Glad to see that you have reached out for help!
Nothing is worth ending your life over - take it from someone who has been where you are before. People sometimes just don't understand one another, and that can make some feel iscolated - it is in no way your fault. Try and find some local clubs or community events which embrace an interest of yours - there you will find like minded individuals who share your interests. There is all sorts of financial help available out there, wheither it be loans, advanced paycheck, government help, bankruptcy, etc. - there is ALWAYS another way - so do not fear about your financial situation, it will improve eventually.
Speak to a physician about your speech impetiment, it is probably something that can be quickly and easily fixed! You communicated excellent on here! Just think, I have never even met you before and I care about your well being - so count me in as a friend! your more then welcome to message me back! Just don't give up bro, please give life a chance, your still very young and have a lot to live for - always remember - "and this to shall pass" - meaning your situation will pass and improve with time, just give yourself some!
2006-10-11 19:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by tyler e 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
all great men have stood in that very spot, because you are only one person, you loose that you are the caretaker (there is nothing your eye will see that should mean more to you than what you are within to your self)of all that you are, soon you see that you can't have lived any different, because:::: you know what you know@ my contribution to freud, here the problem, the sh@t goes this way divide and conquer first know that~ we all ~beat our heads against the same wall, and two know how to stop beating your head against a brick wall, they are two distinctly different fights and divide and conquer these "individually" and half the battle is won, it is not you defects that fail it is your attitude, honor yourself and the struggle you portray, stand in a line that has you moving and don't stop to you get there, write on compute and make prints of all that you could easly write and hand some one rather than trying to begin all the time with your impairments prerequest for difficult communication dialoge, wow, that's a bunch just to get on paper. back to the line get to the health dept go to the city hall and work you way in to the face of compassion and stay a way from dead beat, office bad people and you have to have the right help just like everybody else and then you stop see everybody else is different they aren't so, when you change your attitude it will put you together, so you can understand meaning beyond what you know, read and see why i said, you know what you know , now if you can't come out of your shell then drag a great book in to it, great oaks from little acorns, and have fun too, strong people can't have fun, it just isn't that easy, be nice to your self
2006-10-11 19:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by bev 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you should go and talk to someone. The communication problem can be worked on and you can improve this with practice. Being poor is not a reason to give up, plenty of people who are poor succeed in life and are rich in ways that may not be financial but are amazing. If you are lonely it may be time to travel as thats a great way of meeting people - it forces you out of your rut and you are forced to make an effort and get to know new people. You can do it!
2006-10-11 19:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
each and every fall would have an both large upward push. that's how typically issues are those days, for many the people. have self belief in GOD and different acquaintances n kin ( one man or woman/kinfolk isn't end of each and every thing. U were certainly with out them for lengthy). U will be very well quickly. attempt to forget the previous n stay each and every second of the present. strong success n quick restoration
2016-10-16 04:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi;
1) I have a speech problem, I stutter and I lisp. Take your time talking. Think through what you wish to say before you say it. Take a deep breathe, and relax before you talk. It won't make it go away, but it will help you to be understood better.
2) If the people you are trying to be friends with are ignoring you because you have a speech problem, find new friends. It took me a long time to find real friends who weer willing to allow me to take my time talking. This has helped greatly with my stutter.
3) I am also financially poor, but I am rich in family and friends. Money is not everything.
I suggest you join an internet chat room to make friends.
2006-10-11 19:50:32 · answer #7 · answered by Tan Zanite 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you should have to end it all because of your speech disorder or financial reasons....life is way to short to leave it all for such reasons, you'll see a you get older that even the small things in life are worth living for.... i understood clearly your message and to me that is not a communication problem... keep your head up high, your really worth it!!!!
2006-10-11 19:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by joulick 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
OK. As for now all the wrong things already happened to you.
This means that future can only bring you good things, cause this is the way life goes. Nobody gets only good or only bad.
Cheer up and let this foolish thought get out of your head.
Life is great, live it up!
2006-10-11 19:26:13 · answer #9 · answered by Mira 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
dude
1. practice talking with something
perhaps a dummy for not being a mum
you can practice with tongue twisters
2.try to make yourself attractive
3. get a job you will find fun
if you have a job but you are still poor,try to do extra work like mowing the lawn of your neighbor
above all, pray to jesus(christian) or allah(islam) or bramhan(hindu)
2006-10-11 19:23:51 · answer #10 · answered by zo 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋