Ok so there is this guy Matt <3 who I met a couple months ago at work. We didn't talk much, but he used to wink at me and smile and stare (OH I LOVED IT!!!, lol) Now I don't work there anymore and I'm never gonna see him again. He's all I can think of though and I don't wanna go on until I can well...ask him out or something, yah know? The problem is I have no way of seeing him anymore? Also I don't know him that well. How could I get a hold of him and what should I say?
PS- I am horrible at putting things into words and I hope you understand what I'm asking. Thanks in advance.
2006-10-11 18:48:51 · 13 answers · asked by Jessica A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
actually i dont wanna know if i'll get over him...just how tto get wit him
2006-10-11 18:52:45 · update #1
Let him do the chasing, he will if he really wants to and relax, get yourself uptite over a wink- well....get a life.... back
2006-10-11 18:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by tracey s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't you have the number to where he STILL works? So why don't you call him and ask him out?
You know, "Hi Matt. This is so-and-so. You used to wink and smile at me? Well I was wondering, if you aren't seeing anyone right now, if you'd like to go out some time?"
2006-10-11 18:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest that you go back to where you used to work to visit and strike up a conversation with him and casually ask him if he would like to hang out sometime or maybe go to a movie, then he will know that you are interested. if he is really interested in you he will jump at the chance to hang out with you, and then hopefully he will be the one to ask you out, and you won't be up all night trying to put it into words yourself. alot of guys are shy and don't know how to ask the question. if you are too shy to ask him to do anything tell him to keep in touch and give him your number. if he calls then you will get over the embarrassment of giving him your #. if he doesn't call then you can at least say that you tried and you can move on. and yes in that case you will definately get over him. good luck!
2006-10-11 19:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by zoe m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We will always think about people we have interest in, but the feelings arent always as we see them. We can overcome deap intrened feelings but it takes time and new inerest. when we lose something or somebody we need to replace in time with something to fufill that void. Take care Vernon.
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2006-10-11 18:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by Vernon J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how I can answer this question about you getting with him. It just sounds you are going to have to get lucky someday, somewhere or look through phone books, or call a person to find him. I don't know??
2006-10-11 18:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should go back to where you work. Talk to him leave him a note even, atleast make the effort to talk to him so that way in your mind you know atleast you tried.
2006-10-11 18:53:42 · answer #6 · answered by kassandra m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just call him?
and talk with him.
thats ashame you dont know how to put things into words, wonder just how much you have lost .
if anything i would say get some courage about you.
2006-10-11 19:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by concrete water 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try stalking love
2006-10-11 18:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by salforddude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop by your job to "say hi" to a few people...
2006-10-11 18:52:35 · answer #9 · answered by lavendergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call where he works and ask to speak to him.
how difficult is that?
2006-10-11 21:45:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋