Ok, im a nice guy, 8th grade. I got this her about 3wks ago,we talk sometimes but just a little. All we have done is just hug when we she goes to another class or home. Any tips on what to or how to talk to her? And any tips to hold hand, when i should kiss her?(a friend of her told me to kiss her but im too shy) Please answer ;-) TIA
2006-10-11 18:47:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best way to improve your communications skills is to ask a person question. Like, what is your favorite sport? If something interesting happened in your day tell her about it. Also ask her how her day was. Days later ask her how something went....this shows you care and remember what you guys talk about.
As for holding hands.......you can reach for her hand while walking and just do it. Or if you are sitting you can give her a sweet smile and hold your hand out....like an invitation.
If you are shy for a kiss.........move your face slowly closer to hers. Ocassionally look down at her lips and sweetly grin.
Get closer and closer. Most often a girl will lean in to a kiss like you do and i it just happens.. It is like an unrehersed dance.
Good luck
2006-10-11 18:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl once told me, "If a guy has to ask then I don't need to kiss." Just do it. While you are talking to her, look into her eyes and get closer. If she closes them, just put your lips on hers. She will help you with the rest if she wants the kiss. Or you could try giving her a quick kiss instead of a hug good-bye. It will make it easier to give her a real kiss next time you are together. After kissing, holding hands will be easy. Hold her hand any time you want. If she doesn't want it, she will let you know. But remember, she expects YOU to initiate the first move.
As far as talking to her, it doesn't matter what you talk about, just talk. You must have something in common to talk about. After all you share the same school, maybe some of the same classes. Good conversation starter is to compliment her on something, ask her opinion on something (maybe a mutual assignment you didn't understand, or an assignment you want her opinionn on), ask her something about her. These things show that you are interested in her.
2006-10-11 19:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by arizona wolfman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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It sounds like he isn’t a very social man. It also sounds like he is incredibly protective of his I am assuming teenage daughter. Be respectful and keep what I would consider a “Sleazy Compliments” to yourself. Some people do not view meal time as an appropriate place to carry on a conversation. If you are a teen, then dads never are able to really get close to a boyfriend. Those relationships rarely last and there is often not very much in common. You could ask him, just say your concerned that the two of you got off on the bad foot and you want to clear the air of any misconceptions that you two might have about one another. Treat his daughter well, don’t be overly pervy with the complements to his mother, treat them respect, offer to help them with setting or clearing from meals and keep yourself presentable.
2016-04-10 04:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-12 22:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take her hand and when it comes to conversation, just start talking. Do not talk about yourself--rather, ask her how her day has been. Ask her what her favorite color is. Ask her what her favorite television show is or what music does she prefer. If you ask questions, you are sure to get a reply. That is how you get a conversation going. Answer her questions truthfully. And as for kissing the girl, you will know when the time is right. Do not allow your friends to push you into anything you are not ready for. This relationship you got going is between you and the girl.
2006-10-11 18:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by Call Me Babs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, if you guys just hug then that doesnt make her your girlfriend dude! You have to break your shyness and just talk to her! If your afraid to get rejected well then thats kinda tough. Your young and will meet alot of chicks so dont sweat it. Try getting her MSN and talk to her online, that breaks the ice mostly and then when you meet in person, you will feel more comfortable with her and maybe you can actually start dating. If you like her and she likes you then just ask her out, dont waste your time with it because you dont want that either. Make a move before some other guy does! Hope this helped
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Ok, im a nice guy, 8th grade. I got this her about 3wks ago,we talk sometimes but just a little. All we have done is just hug when we she goes to another class or home. Any tips on what to or how to talk to her? And any tips to hold hand, when i should kiss her?(a friend of her told me to kiss her...
2015-08-18 05:59:18 · answer #7 · answered by Ulrika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you are doing good so far. Why don't you ask for her phone number and then you guys could talk on the phone and you conversation would be more private and then you could work your way from there. Don't rush anything there are four years in highschool and there is plenty of time to learn all you need to know, actually all that you are ever gonna really know bout girls, lol.
2006-10-11 18:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-17 08:39:20 · answer #9 · answered by john 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since u 2 are still very young you should just go out and have fun...get to know one another by asking her her intrests...her favorite color...music she likes and let her know what u like...that will show u both what u have in common and then u 2 will know what you can do to have fun without having sex u feel me?....don't rush into giving her a kiss just when it happens it happens you can't plan it aight....good luck
2006-10-11 18:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by MZ.LANDA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋