I dated a girl last year for about 4 months. We broke up. A couple months later she started dating another guy. She broke up with him last week, partly because of me. I told her I thought he was no good for her, so she took it to mean that I still wanted to go out with her. I didn't think she would think that, I was just telling her what I thought of him because one time when I was going to a party with my friends, her and her boyfriend came with and we all said hello to him, but he just kind of nodded and didn't say anything. Now she is asking if I want to be friends or if I want to go out with her. What should do I do? Also, comment on the misunderstanding of me telling her what I thought of her ex-boyfriend when it was her boyfriend at the time. Would you assume that's what my intentions were?
2006-10-11 18:37:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The thing I see is that you just went out with her, and you broke up. You must have broke up for a reason. I would say just be friends because it didn't work before, so why would it work now??
2006-10-11 18:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my friend, i really dont know the reason why the two of you broke up. But from what you are telling, i understand that she still loves and trusts you because based on wht you told her, she had made a decision in her life. I have a feeling that you too reciprocate the same feelings for her otherwise why would you be interested whether this guy she is dating is good or bad. SInce she too may be loves / likes you, why dont you'll get back togehter and see if things work out. Just a suggestion. Otherwise the right thing for you to do is to go up to her and explain to her that as a i know you well and as a good friend I told you and that i have no love feelings for you and only want you to have a happy life. I know this is too much, but you need to let a girl know. Because girls try to read too much between the lines.
2006-10-12 01:51:36 · answer #2 · answered by Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still like her then you may give her another chance. May be she is repenting her decision to break up with you.
About the boyfriend's issue I think your intentions were quite innocent in telling her that her new boyfriend was no good. I don't think you should blame yourself for that as you may have influenced the decision partly but in the end it was her choice to break up.
If you don't like her anymore then you should tell her about that clearly.
2006-10-12 01:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by Friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming by the language in your question that you're under the age of 12, I'd say... quit worrying about girls and do your homework!
2006-10-12 01:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by keysfunding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. Don't let it get out of hand. Make sure you clear this up before she has too many old feeling surface.
2006-10-12 01:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by bouta45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you seem to care about her well-being but if you want her to be happy without being in a relationship with her, then butt out. She'll learn eventually..
2006-10-12 01:41:45 · answer #6 · answered by pussnboots333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up your mind and quit getting in her business if you dont want to date her.
2006-10-12 01:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by saturn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i would not assume you where trying to break them up. but if you want to see her, i would say go for it:-)
2006-10-12 01:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by stephaniencurtis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead, make sure she comes on to you.
2006-10-12 01:42:54 · answer #9 · answered by keithr2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, i say right on...scrog that broad, its great to finally see a chic getting what she deserves...
2006-10-12 01:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by powerlifter1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋