When I was 14 I was raped by a guy and im a guy ok so heh and im not gayi love women a whole lot, but i have thoughts about homosexuality randomly, it doesnt turn me on or anything but im woundering has anyone else gone through anything like this or do i just need help?
2006-10-11 18:37:44 · 5 answers · asked by Shindiggy 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
If you have the full opportunity to have sex with opposite sex and are enjoying but even then you are feeling the need to have sex with same sex then you should think about it seriously otherwise need not worry because same sex relationships occur mainly due to lack of ventilation in the normal way and you can think this also like mastrubation.
2006-10-11 18:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a lesbian. haven't been with a man in over 20 years, i to was raped 5 different times while i was growing up. that is not the reason for my sexuality (the rapes) but i can see an attractive man and find him sexually attractive. i know thats not what would make me happy or satisfied. we as human beings are sexual beings and sexuality is different for everyone of us. on a spectrum 0 being totally straight and 10 being totally homosexual; most people fall in between, no one being a total 1 or 10.
2006-10-12 01:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think about sexuality as having much to do with sex. I think its more about how you fall in love. I'm married and consider myself mostly heterosexual. I have had sex with other women but I don't think that I could fall in love with another woman. Random sexual thoughts comes along with being human. You're not weird or strange in anyway and you're not gay. There is a big difference between having sexual thoughts or even fantasies about member of the same sex and falling in love. Even if you are gay, there is still nothing strange or weird about you.
2006-10-12 02:28:04 · answer #3 · answered by melissa p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to think about the same sex, and same sex relations throughout your life. It doesn't make you gay or really have anything to do with your sexual assault, but rather a normal progression.
2006-10-12 01:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it happens to just about everyone. ive had them and in no way am i a lesbian. it doesnt mean you are gay.
2006-10-12 01:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by spunky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋