She has been flrting with me for a couple of weeks, but when i called her on it she said; ' I flrt with someone in every class, I was flirting for fun, I don't like you that much, your a freind. I have a boy freind on the east cost( she says she just moved), ,.' Now i would be content with this , and move on with my life. BUT when I talked to her a few weeks ago i said 'Is that a love leter to your boyfreind.' She said, with a tone of anger,' No , I don't even have a boyfeind, these are the words to a song.' This is were I need some help, I think she made the boyfriend up to make it seem she isn't as desprerate as she is for some attention, but i really like her and i don't want to hurt her feelings( if she does even have a boyfriend on the east cost she wants to stay loyal to). By the way she really does flrit with me, alot. What should i do, let her belive i belive her lies, call her on it, or find some one else?
PS: I really like her , help me people of yahoo. :)
2006-10-11 18:18:02 · 9 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's seems to be really nice, but she's has a buch of problems with her life.
2006-10-11 19:03:16 · update #1
If you really like her, hang out with her. If she made up the bf to protect herself, it won't matter. He will just magically go away. Or maybe they broke up and thats why whe was so angry with you. and if that is the case she need a friend to make her feel loved. once again- you win. If he does exist, "on the east coast" sounds far away and she still probably needs a friend to hag out with so at least you could eventually hear all about him and know where you stand. I think you are in good shape buddy.
2006-10-11 18:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by THIS.B.ROSE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh! That's tough! We it seems that she has the problem not you. Her situation is difficult to comprehend. At first, she sounds like she's ***** next door then another she's the oh so loyal girlfriend to her "boyfriend" then the next thing is that hey I'm "really available" guys. "Come and get me". Guys will never understand the way girls think in every minute just like we girls have difficulties understading you "guys". The best thing I can tell is that show her that you care for her even if she's the most complicated woman you've ever met and even if she's someone else's girl, let her hang out with you and let her feel that she can be who she want to be and be herself with your company.
2006-10-11 18:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by Gorgeous Chick Next Door 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand what you mean by , she made the boyfriend up to make it seem she isn't as desparate as she is for some attention. That is deep.
... Or do you mean, she is playing hard to get in some twisted way, like testing you if you would still like her as much if she were dating someone but it was long distance, (outta sight outta mind)?
Heck, call her out on it. But if you are already questioning if you should find someone else, then find someone else. Guess it isn't that serious!!!
And if she was lying to you and by the time you find out but have a new girl, and it'd be too late, then it'd be her fault for lying!!!!
2006-10-11 18:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by denh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you sound desperate. Does it really matter whether she has a boyfriend? If she wants to be with you she will. Just give her some space and act like you aren't interested. If she's interested, she'll put forth the effort and make it known,. If she's not, then she won't. Chasing after isn't going to change how she feels about you and just make you look desperate. If she's not into you, she's not into,.
2006-10-11 18:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by aint_no_stoppin_us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just by bringing up a boyfriend whether made up or not means that she doesn't like you like that. BTW some people flirt like they breath air sometimes the flirting doesn't mean anything. Don't waste your time and fine someone else
2006-10-11 18:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Crumbling_Cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead to love her bah! Maybe she is making up white lies to see whether you love her or not? (guessing only) She might be telling you that she did had a boyfriend, but maybe she wanted to see whether you will still be with her even though she had a boyfriend. Dunno, if you think you love her, just go all out to love, dun be shy. Fight with your rival! Follow your heart, think, when you and she together, does she feels happy? Haha, jkjk... =) But 'jia you' wor, "love like you have never been hurt before"!
2006-10-11 18:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok now you might want to sit down for this... but you know how some adult people are just plain NUTS... well, they weren't BORN as adults... they were younger people at one time... much younger versions of their nutty selves. What you have there, is a CRAZY person
2006-10-11 18:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by Hillary Dillary 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like her let her play her game. Just tell her if she ever breaks up with this guy you would like to take her out. But tell her you hope that if she wants this guy it works out for her.
2006-10-11 18:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by saturn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might get hurt by her. She might have made up this person because she's not into you. It's your choice what you want to do though.
2006-10-11 18:22:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋