Do you guys really change, when your the cause a relationship going sour?? Or better yet, man up and take responsibility for your part? Just curious.........
2006-10-11 17:56:22 · 17 answers · asked by denise 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would if I really loved the girl and valued the relationship - if I was convinced I was wrong. However, I believe most men would not. If a woman finds herself in a relationship where she needs to change her man to make the relationship work, she needs to find a new relationship - because in almost all cases she will NOT be able to change the man. The relationship you can change, the man you cannot.
2006-10-11 18:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by arizona wolfman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I take responsibility for what I've done wrong in my relationships. I've even been working on changing a lifelong habit because it soured a relationship I had been in. I do that for two reasons; I want to get back with my last gf and I no longer want to live in messy conditions. So, in some cases, we guys do change.
2006-10-11 17:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by Red1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah. We change when a chic tells us we're the one that "causes a relationship going sour" . And we love to "man-up" when being brow beaten by our women . And we always take responsibility for "our part" when our faults are pointed out. Quit being so selfish,
2006-10-11 18:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by Foss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A real man takes responsibilities for his actions and the resulting occurrences because of them. Some men never change and women should stay clear of them as they lead to ongoing heartache.
2006-10-11 18:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same can be asked for women (except the "man up" part, of course). The market on being lousy at relationships isn't cornered by men only.
2006-10-11 18:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always tried to admit my part of the problem. It was my x-wife who had difficulty with that. In 17 and 1/2 years, she never admitted she was wrong about anything and never apologized about anything.
It's been 5 years since we lived together and 3 years since the divorce, and she still thinks that every problem in the marriage was my fault. You're not like that too, are you?
2006-10-11 18:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER. No one changes. Men or women. Unless the have a sever trauma to the brain like a stroke or a car wreck.
2006-10-11 20:01:43 · answer #7 · answered by Brother Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello denise,
It really does take two people to tango and to make a relationship work. It takes two people to make a relationship not work also. You need to work on your relationship skills too. Sorry.
--Rick
2006-10-11 18:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I won't change for any woman, if she can't take me for what I am then she should of got to know me better before she hooked up with me
2006-10-11 18:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
man up and take responsibility of course.
2006-10-11 17:57:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋