My friends and I never seem to come across any. Where should we go? What should we do? What's going on with men today. We are young, beautiful, educated and employed women, with no kids....Now can you believe that one??? I'm just venting!!!!
2006-10-11 17:50:29 · 27 answers · asked by denise 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, Denise, you deserve a thoughtful answer. Not sure if I can do that. But here goes.
First off, you say you are "beautiful, educated and employed" Lets loOK at that from a "good man's" perspective.
beautiful - probably is a little self centered. Can't confirm the beauty without a picture or seeing in person. tough call.
educated - probably thinks is smarter than everyone else. What will that do to a "good man's" ego? Certainly nothing good.
employed - ok, you are self sufficient. A "good man" would probably want to provide for his family, and not have is wife work.
Those are three strikes against you, from a "good man".
Now, if you had said "beautiful, uneducated and endowed....well, now you are talking.
Of course both statements could be bold face lies....cause with out the proof you ain't gonna get a good man.
Thank you for the two points.
2006-10-11 17:59:38 · answer #1 · answered by seatony 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is just sooo hard to find the perfect person. You know why? Cause you can't. You might find a kind guy with a job who isn't a drunkard or a drug addict, but he's going to have his flaws. I understand that when I meet a girl, she is not going to be everything I want her to be. But If she puts up with my inadequecies, I can put up with her's and if she's understanding, nice, and funny, I don't really care how her face or body looks like.
Maybe your standards are to high. Sure every girl wants that tall handsome hunk who is also smart, athletic, and loving to marry, but the reality is, your never going to be completely satisfied. I mean, if you had to be ALL that to be accepted by a girl, I would never get a date!! In a marriage, both people are incomplete and thats how they complete each other by uniting. You can't expect a complete person to start with. I've found some pretty nice girls at church, and at school. Trust your intuition.
God Bless and Good Luck!
2006-10-12 00:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i am with you on that one. I have been wondering the same thing for awhile now and i don't think that there are any good guys left in the world. They all think they have to be all big and bad, tough guys and so insensitive. What happened to the ones that would wait on you hand and foot and just be there for you i mean gosh it looks like guys would want to do that for us women. But I'm glad I'm not the only one looking for the good guys! Let me know if you find any! Good Luck!
2006-10-12 00:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by LAshlea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it annoys me when women say that, I have a son (6) and I know I'm raising a good man. He's sweet and thoughtful and cares more about others than himself. I know sometimes single sucks, but if you're not dating, how about contributing to raising good men for the next generation? Volunteer. and you might find what you are looking for along the way.
2006-10-12 00:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by kbuchanan802000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your age but clubs are not the best place to go and meet that type of man.. Maybe go on speed dating or something of that sort.. But as far your answer to where all the good men are: I really don't know. I have one, but he's mine and I'm keeping him. They're rare as men do mature a lot slower than women.
2006-10-12 00:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by KIm Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you to try to meet someone that defines himself as a good man. I am 20, I'm a computer engineer and I am eployed and I don't have kids either. I am a good man but woman dont take the time to see it. Please email me if you're slightly interested. I dont consider myself ugly or extrmely hot. You can decide for yourself. I could also probably help you or your friend out if you email me. Email: viper3kgt@verizon.net
2006-10-12 01:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by Viper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
India
2006-10-12 00:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is only one good man & he is due to be coming home around 2 am from work... However there are other knock offs out there, & the thing is just to be patient, & god will make sure that you 2 meet.
2006-10-12 00:54:12 · answer #8 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go visit a hospital clinic!! a bunch of doctors are good men!
2006-10-12 00:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont go looking.. he will come along when u least expect it..
in november last year i broke up wit my boyfriend n vowed to myself to forget bout men n just be single, party n just do wat girls do.. relationships were neva a strong point for me.. my longest was not even 6 months..
well my house mates cousin came to stay from th top of australia th NT (i lived at th bottom in vic) in december n we just hit it off.. we met on th 12th n i moved up to th NT on th 28th.. we r still together n its been 10months n we still as strong as eva..
so my advice to u is dont go looking.. love will find u..
2006-10-12 00:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by Skitz_kitty2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋