i have been talking to a guy i meet online since 9/14/2006 and we have seen eachother about 4times,and we chat alot on yahoo messenger and the second time he came over we made out and i find myself likeing him alot,so we told eachother that we would tell eachother that we would always be honest and say what we r thinking at all times and lastnight i told him that i have feeling for him,im not in love with him i just really like him,and his response was i dont kno what to say,theres nothing to say,and i dont kno what i should think about it or what my next move should be from a mans point of view can a man tell me whats the problem?and what should i do?
2006-10-11 17:50:27 · 10 answers · asked by Boo! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he's only looking for fun... There is one thing i've learned is that man if they fall in love, they fall in it faster than woman does and they are most often head over heel rather than woman doing it. So if a guy can't answered or anything, for me, he's jz not tat into you to give up his single status and all the benefits with it....Still i wish you all the best...
2006-10-11 17:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle_1987 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he should know by now if he likes you AT LEAST or not since you guys have seen, talked & made out with each other. He might've thought he had a great friend w/ benefits. At least he knows how you feel now. Don't be hurt if he doesn't return the feelings b/c chances are that he might not since he didn't come out and say it when you did.
2006-10-11 18:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by sam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he must think you are being too attatched too soon. If he is scared, give him some time, talk to him about what he thinks of you, where he sees it going and if he says he will be honest and he is the truth will come out. you will find out if he is in it for something else or not. Don't push him too much. If you want things to be more and he doesn't seem to ever want to, move on. But for now talk to him
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2016-10-16 02:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men in general (not all) are terrible with their feelings and being open about them verbally. What does your gut instinct tell you?
I would just come straight out and ask him if you made him feel uncomfortable at all with saying that. Then see what he says, it will open the door for him to broach the subject. Its so hard to know what happens in a guys mind, and they say women are impossible, lol at least we say something.
Good Luck girl.
2006-10-11 17:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may truely have feelings for you, and is unsure....or he might just be a player. Maybe he has a girlfriend. See his place to find out if what he's telling you is the truth. Be careful, and good luck.
2006-10-11 18:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were honest and that is good. Let him think about it but if he takes longer then a week see other guys.
2006-10-11 17:52:48 · answer #7 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa!! slow down and get to know him better- you may also need to clarify to him "feellings"- he may think you mean in love and that should certainly scare him off- or make him think- hey- I can get off her what I want- be careful- D
2006-10-11 17:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUND LIKE YOU WERE HONEST WITH HOW YOU FEEL
THAT GOOD, SO NOW HE KNOW NOW WHAT THE DEAL SO
NOW THAT THE CARD ARE ON THE TABLES HIS TURN TO
DEAL OR NO DEAL. HE MAY JUST NEED TIME.
2006-10-11 18:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try him once in bed
2006-10-11 17:52:46 · answer #10 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋