I am a very nice guy, that would do anything for anybody even if we are not the best of friends. I have dumped many many times in the past two years and i dont know why. Everytime i have told i have been a really really good boyfriend, but i am better at being a friend then their boyfriend. I really want to find a girl that loves me, and will not give me the shaft like it has happened to me before. I would not say I am a extremely attractive individual, but i am in not way an eye sore. I am really sweet and i would make whom ever girl that would date me as happy as i possibly could. Please help me out....
2006-10-11 17:46:37 · 12 answers · asked by surfmonk318 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to stop being full of yourself. If you were really as sweet and nice as you say, you wouldn't have been dumped numerous times.
2006-10-11 17:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're gonna find biotches in real life just like you are on here *ahem* ... referring to some answers you'll get. It depends on how old you are and the ages of the girls you're dating. I'm 25 now and when I was younger I was so stupid. I didn't want the nice guys. I didn't like guys who called me as soon as they got home after the date or were lovey dovey. Most people like a challenge. But as women grow older, they generally tend to realize their mistakes and would rather gravitate towards nicer guys. Don't worry. Alot of times it is true that nice guys finish last. Just don't be pushy when it comes to girls. Let things flow. You know what I mean? I know how you feel. I'm really nice too and really sensitive and trusting and tend to get walked all over so I know how you feel.
2006-10-11 18:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing nice things for everyone under the sun makes a girl feel like just a friend because you treat her like everyone else. I'm sure you're a nice guy but there has to be a little more to it than that... like still be nice to everyone, but when you really fall for a girl, make sure she knows and not just by being super-super-nice. Hope this helps...
2006-10-11 17:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by maggiej117 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, i went through the same problem. i started being evil to women...i couldnt get enough of them. women like the bad guy. thatswh yyou will usually have 3-4 tell you how horrible their boyfriend is, but they will never break up with them. stupid huh? if you treat them like $hit, they will like you. once you get them, if you start being nice again, they will dump you. as i said, i was nice for 8 years. the next 2 years i was evil, got them turned nice, got dumped. now for the past 7 years, ive been pure evil and had the same girlfriend (plus a few others).
2006-10-11 17:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound sweet, but you sound to goody goody and you need a little bit of a bad boy attitude, do u understand? A relationship can not always be perfect because eventually it will bore us girls and well you need to add a bit of excitement to the relationship. Don't always do what you tend to do like do everything for the girl, that's cool and all, but dude you have to chill a bit. It makes you seem more like a friend. Well anyways best of luck and ciao~
2006-10-11 17:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by a_cute_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....take some advice from a girl! Apparently, the girls probably found another guy who they TRULY love and if they had their moment, you will to for SURE! Just wait until it is the right time! I bet you will find one in a coupe of days!
2006-10-11 17:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to be their friend, and show them some imagination and adventure. Make going out with you mind-boggling. Go watch Hitch or something and get some creativity.
2006-10-11 17:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want someone who will stand up for himself and live his own life. If you seem too wishy washy like a doormat out you go!
2006-10-11 17:52:28 · answer #8 · answered by slippped 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww, i m sorry. i am a girl in your situation. i go out with guys and they break up with me because they arent gonna get laid or they miss just being my friend. i am pretty attractive and i am nice. i hope for the best for you....
2006-10-11 17:52:25 · answer #9 · answered by Rebecca Forever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be an asshole once in a while. Chics seem to respect *** holes more than push overs
2006-10-11 17:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋