well, i have been chating with him for over 2 years now, problem is hes in ireland and im un the usa, this winter im going for a family trip to ireland, but i dont know is i should meet him, im afraid of what may happen if i like him or if i dont, and if i do i still have 2 years to finish collage . i dot know what to do. i may love him for all i know, i dont know im confused..
2006-10-11 17:43:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
meet him, you will always hate yourself if you dont at least find out.
2006-10-11 17:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by Southie9 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Meet him....but meet him in a public place and take a friend for back up, or make sure you let someone know what you are up to. It is a dangerous place out there these days and you never know. But if you have been talking to him for two years there is an emotional connection there and now you will find out if there is a physical attraction. I say go for it, its not like you are going to meet up and run to the chapel, just meeting him in person and can come back to the US and finish school chatting for another two years and maybe he will come and visit you.
2006-10-12 00:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should meet him. Eventhough you may or may not fall in love with him in real person or not is depends on yourself. If you really do, still you have to go on finishing your college courses. I hate to pour cold water on you but your future doesn't only mean getting married and being in love with someone. It's also being sucessful in life and family wise and careerwise. Think of the best route for yourself and not anyone else. This may sound selfish but this is your life and no one will walk with you till the end of the road except yourself.
2006-10-12 00:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by Gabrielle_1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet him but in public I've said this once tonight but I'll say it again. Its better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.
2006-10-12 00:47:38 · answer #4 · answered by toyapooh03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't meet him yet! I met a couple guys I talked to online for a coule years and it was a big disappointment!
2006-10-12 00:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by happy1here♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it as a casual visit with a friend. Don't expect much and you won't be disappointed.
Stay in college. Your spelling and grammar are terrible.
2006-10-12 00:46:54 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say, finish **collage** if you don't know how to spell it, you clearly need more school.
2006-10-12 01:10:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-10-12 00:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yuppp go on...
2006-10-12 00:46:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋