Me and my boyfriend are in school together and of course girls like him and flirt with him i was fine with that but now they have began to physically flirt with him and that i have a problem with so i needed to know is there anyway I could tell them to stop without all the fighting and drama
2006-10-11 17:42:46 · 11 answers · asked by BABYGIRLJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel like this about it: if your man loves you, he'll fend them off himself. My husband works with all women and they flirt all day, but I'm confident enough to know that they could never offer him what I give him. And if you find your boyfriend falling for one of them, let him go. There's always someone out there that's probably better for you.
2006-10-11 17:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by It's Been Cool 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First its not up to you to tell the "Groupies" anything. You need to have a talk with your boyfriend and tell him how your feeling without putting him on the defence. It's a sticky situation because you don't want to look like controlling or jealous BUT your feelings are an important part in this. You haven't said how long you have been going out together but if he cares about you he'll take care of the problem and you'll feel more comfortable.
2006-10-12 01:02:00 · answer #2 · answered by tinywolf2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I realize that you find my man very attractive, so do I. But let's be real for a second. If you had a man that a bunch of girls were flirting with and you knew about it would you be cool with it or would you want them to stop? I love this guy. He's means much more to me than a cool guy that's really good looking. Please stop flirting with him. It's beginning to make me jealous and I'm not a jealous person. Thanks for understanding .............
When you get done writing that however many times you need to give it to all of the girls, you then put them all in envelopes and do your best not to be around when they open them. They'll get over it and you won't have to be around to hear them doing it. If they try to give you a hard time even after you're being nice then open up a can on em' !
2006-10-12 00:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by rowster 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello BABYGIRLJ,
It sounds like those groupies are doing that to push your buttons. The person that you really need to talk to about this is your boyfriend. Maybe there's something that he can do to discourage these girls about this.
Best of luck.
--Rick
2006-10-12 00:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You need to make a BIG deal about it. Give him something to remember for the next time they flirt. Jump up and smack one of the little tramps. Believe me, if you fight to keep him he will love it.
2006-10-12 00:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by Brother Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say nicely, "Please stop flirting with my boyfriend, I find it really upsetting. Thank you for understanding." Then walk away with a smile and accept the results as they are. Violence is never worth it. Keep yourself peaceful, that is all you can do.
2006-10-12 00:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same exact problem.....first of all tell your boyfriend about how it bothers you and tell him if he can please tell them to stop because its disrepecting you. If you would rather do it yourself then confront them but in a nice way and tell them like this........well you know i know u and my boyfriend are friends and all but the way u talk to him sometimes and touch him kind of makes me feel bad because i feel like you r disrespecting me so if u can please stop with the unappropriate touching..............thats what you can tell them......also he should know its buggin you and i'm pretty sure he can avoid it by telling them to stop
2006-10-12 00:51:37 · answer #7 · answered by MEri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, nobody can answer this question but you. If he is not true to you then he never will be. I wish you the best of luck, but if he is not the right one for you,don"t waste your time.
2006-10-12 00:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not gonna happen. So get ready for a girl fight.
2006-10-12 00:45:28 · answer #9 · answered by toyapooh03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be the one telling them not you
2006-10-12 00:57:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋