The bad part is my friend had a one night stand with him a year ago.Since then they talk as friends but she told me she has no romantic interest in him.I have told her that i thought he was my type and good looking.She asked if i wanted her to hook us up.I said no ofcourse because had been together.The night in question, she saw us kissing and asked me what the F*** i was doing and i am no kind of friend.At the time, I was confused that she felt that way.She now tells me that she didnt know that it would effect her or how much she liked him until she seen us kissing.She then told me that he made advances toward her all the time and he had no idea she didnt have romantic interest. After the night with me and him,she said he told her he only did it because he was jelous because she was hanging all over another guy that night.He told me this was a lie and there was nothing between them.I have caught her in other lies and am having a hard time believing her.How can i find out the truth
2006-10-11 17:31:34 · 11 answers · asked by justme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you sound like you;re both two bit whores and deserve each other as friends
2006-10-11 17:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested in this guy really, then I would just tell her you know you were going to hook us up anyway.
She sounds like one of those girls that only wants a guy because he is taken. Cause all of a sudden he is an interest for her because you have him.
I would have to say get them in the same place and then go from there. Go to the restroom and hide and see if he is not giving her glances or touching her hand and if he's not and it is her making the advances then come out pull her to the side and tell her like it is, you passed him up and now he's with me and if you can't handle that then I won't bring him around you anymore.
But girl if you find out he is playing both sides of the fence then I would hang his *** out to dry.
You could always say if what you say is true then call him up and let me listen in.
2006-10-12 00:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She dose not seem like a very good friend to me. I don't know that I would believe her either. But then too men lie and play both sides he may want his cake and eat it too. Just keep a close eye on both of them. Sooner or later the truth will come out.
2006-10-12 00:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off don't blame it on alcohol liquor only makes us less inhibited to do the things we really want to. but anyway no harm done. your friend is the one with the problem,she should have been honest w/you. you did your part you told her you liked him. that was the perfect time for her to speak up. but if it still bothers you bring them together and find out.
2006-10-12 00:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by peachy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the truth.. They are basically both liars. You should confront them both, at the same time, and determine from that.
Personally if I were you, I would dump em both.
2006-10-12 00:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by Fluffii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT REALLY SOUND LIKE BOTH OF YOU NEED TO SIT DOWN
AND TALK ABOUT WHAT REALLY GOING ON. IT WOULD
BE ASHAMED TO LOSE A FRIEND OVER SOMTHING THAT
COULD BE NOTHING. TRUST MEN COME AND GO. BUT
A FRIIEND WILL ALL WAY BE THERE.
2006-10-12 00:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why worry? Just say g'bye to the drama queen.
2006-10-12 00:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is being a jealous B and it isn't because she wants him.
2006-10-12 00:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, that must've SUCKED!
I feel so sorry for you, man!
2006-10-12 00:34:23 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren C.: Led-head 4 (∞) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he isn't lying also?
2006-10-12 00:47:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋