My husband does not give any money for family. he saves and spends himself he says that i am saving for you and does not expect anything from you, your having money and you spend yourself what can i do
2006-10-11 17:29:40 · 6 answers · asked by esther t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just make sure you don't spend any of your money on Him. If he needs socks, make him pay for them. If he is hungry, make him buy his own food. And so on. After a while, he will get the picture.
2006-10-11 17:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by SouthernLady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
than leave him like i did,cause i couldnt live with my kids without monney and if hes not intrested to keep hes familly that's mean he just doens't care about u or ur familly.im more happy now believe me and im sure u will be ok too
2006-10-12 00:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know... my father-in-law is exactly like that, and my suggestion that we all go Julius Caesar on his hippie booty at Thanksgiving is being considered....
Who wants to carve a turkey when you can carve a pig? :-D
2006-10-12 00:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by CrazyChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before getting married you two should of discussed those financial issues. how the money is used, and who makes what decisions.
You need to stand your ground.
2006-10-12 00:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the husband is supposed to be the provider and it sounds like he is being very selfish....take that to a marriage counselor...i wouldnt take that if i were you. you both have equal responsibility and he sounds like he is doing nothing
2006-10-12 00:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU CAN'T FORCE HIM TO SPEND MONEY FOR FAMILY THEN ASSIGN SOME BILLS TO HIM TO TAKE CARE.IF YOU HAVE KIDS ASK HIM TO BUY CLOTHES,DIAPERS,ETC.DON'T BUY ANYTHING FOR HIM SUCH AS SHAVING CREAM, TOOTH BRUSH,LOTION ,COLOGNE.
2006-10-12 00:35:45 · answer #6 · answered by jocelyn o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋