I just got back with my ex that i love very dearly but there something missing am not sure what it is thou..when we apart i was hang out with my male friend and my feeling had really grew for him and i want to be with him...but i want to try and make thing's work and see what was missing can come back with me and my boyfriend am with now......My question is sould i stay with my boyfriend and see if then can work out and wait couple weeks go by...but if then dont work out like that missing thing dont come back just break up with him so i wont be pulling him along or something like that....What shold i do am confused help me plz
2006-10-11 17:27:25 · 16 answers · asked by a_lil_witchie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sorry to hear your dilemma, the truth is most of have this problem specially if you guys were apart for a while .
You have to think though ,does hanging with your male friend changed some thing in you?
Maybe your subconscious its trying to tell you something.
If that feeling its not there and you really don't know its you,ask your boyfriend if some thing changed if not look in to your self.
I have had plenty of experience about this feeling and if its there , then listen too it ,then make a choice and go on with it or cut your losses. Good luck=)
2006-10-11 17:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by Rick 77 O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you really care about this guy (your ex) then you probably should give it a try. But if you are more concerned about something missing and seeing if it will come back then I think you are going back to him for the wrong reasons. Being with someone is not all about how they look or any thing like that, but what do yall have in common. Do you enjoy his company or is he just some one that is around. I guess what I am saying is if you are going to go out with him and them brake up with him in 2 weeks them you need to move on because you are just going to hurt him and probably push him away more. If you love him and you are willing to give the relationship a real try then I would definitely try working things out with him. If yall are right for each other then things will work out for yall in the long run.
Cathy
P.S. If you want to talk about just fill free to email me. Good Luck I hope every thing works out for you and your ex.
2006-10-11 17:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by Cathy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, thats sad =( If you trust your bf, you should talk to him about it.. Not completely, I mean if you don't feel comfortable about telling him about another guy, then don't.. Just say something like things seem different, and you liked it the way it was..
I dont know the basis for why you two broke up, it could have been something silly, or serious.. But if it was serious, wouldn't you think there was a good reason you broke up with him in the first place?
2006-10-11 17:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by Fluffii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hhhmmm..... honestly there's something missing in ur info too.. how and who did got back?? did you both talk bout it that you want to patch things up?? if so, then what made ur intuition think that something is missing... you need to be clear on this or else, it would still end breaking up w/ ur ex w/c is ur bf right now..
you can't have best of both worlds.. you really have to decide w/ ur heart... on what you really want...
communication is the best policy.. why not tell your bf bout this? Ã
goodluck gurl
2006-10-11 17:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by yen yen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this matter i would like to say that, try to think using ur brain rather using ur heart. Definetely u will be able to do the right thing.
2006-10-11 17:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by Arti Sharma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that if you are not sure about your relationship now, then you need to cut it off now before he gets to close and you break it off and really hurt him. if you love him then you need to show him, but if you are not sure then you need to move on, don't drag him along because you are just going to hurt him in the long run. good luck
2006-10-11 17:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by Boo G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF AND YOUR
BOYFRIEND ABOUT HOW YOU ARE FEELING, THE PROBLEM
IS THAT YOU MAY HAVE GONE BACK TO SOMEONE THAT
MAY YOU SHOULD NOT GONE BACK WITH SINCE YOU HAVE
FEELING FOR SOMEONE ELSE. IT WOULD BE UNFAIR TO
EVERY ONE INVOVLED IF YOU STAY WITH HIM IF YOU
DONT FEEL AS YOU DID., HONESTLY IS THE BEST POLCY.
2006-10-11 17:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you should give him a second chance....you know sinceyou do love him...and if it doesnt work...then maybe this male friend changed your mind...
2006-10-11 17:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by Cutie77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what i understood you should probably pull out now if it ended badly the first time.
2006-10-11 17:31:55 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you left him for a reason so why go back, whats missng is it probably doesnt feel right
2006-10-11 17:29:58 · answer #10 · answered by cheeryeyeore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋