My boyfriend left for Air Force Boot Camp 2 weeks ago and since then I have been talking to his best friend on the phone like all the time. Is that wrong?
2006-10-11 17:22:46 · 15 answers · asked by SunShineBabe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like your getting your groove on already,dang,he is going to feel bad.
Would not want to be in his shoe.
2006-10-11 17:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong if you are friends, plain and simple. He is basically your connection to him, a piece of him you still have. That is why you are wanting that male connection. Just remember where the line is, and don't confuse his friendship as a replacement for your boyfriend. Always put yourself in his place, think if the tables where turned would you be upset if he was talking to your best friend about whatever, if you get to the point that you feel it would upset you, then back up and tone things down.
2006-10-12 00:29:31 · answer #2 · answered by stephaniencurtis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being that you are asking the question, I think you know the answer. It is not exactly RIGHT, because you are going behind your boyfriends back. This other guy is moving in on his best friends girl, what kind of person is that, and do you trust him? When your boyfriend left, did you promise to wait for him? I think you need to take stock of yourself and your values. The poor guy doesn't need either you or his "best friend".
2006-10-12 00:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by polkadot5355 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. If you are being inappropriate or not. If you are attracted to this man, and you want to keep your relationship with your boyfriend then you might want to consider severing the ties with the man for now. Spending time with girlfriends or being physically active or pursuing a hobby might help. BUT, if you like the man, do what you want, but do your best to be honest! Good luck!
2006-10-12 00:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not yet, but continue and it may become wrong. Just ask yourself this question...."If my boyfriend knew I was talking on the phone all the time to his best friend, would he be upset?"
2006-10-12 00:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by scraps 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm what r u guys talkin about? if ur askin this its probably because u feel guilty..if ur not doin anything wrong and ur boyfriend is aware of this then it should be cool...as long as u dont like the friend and he don't like u then it should be cool...
2006-10-12 00:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by Vee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no as long as its just talk. But if your feeling guilty about it then maybe there is a reason that your not sharing. Just make it clear about how its just friendly talk i guess...
2006-10-12 00:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by casper_rat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda if you have feelings for his friend and haven't talked to your boyfriend.
2006-10-12 00:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by toyapooh03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and his friend start to have feelings for one another, then it will soon be VERY wrong. If you start to have feelings for his friend, tell him right away, don't try to hide it
2006-10-12 00:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by answerer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as it goes no futher than phone conversations, no, i think it would be aweful for your man that was serving for your freedom, & rights found out that you were shaggin' his supposed to be best friend. so keep it clean.
2006-10-12 00:26:50 · answer #10 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋