I feel upset when I know she makes his bed. Me and my bf are in a long distance relationship, and those are supposed to be my job to make his bed and do his laundry!
I think it's very inappropriate for her to do that, but he doesn't think so.
Am I being unreasonable?
2006-10-11 17:00:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it is odd, i agree. But most likely he is taking advantage of her willingness to do those things for him. Dont worry about it. Unless you dont like him using people, which i personally dont agree with. If i were you tho, i wouldnt worry about it. Im sure that the way he sees it, its just less for him to do. That all. Dont stress.
2006-10-11 17:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it's supposed to be HIS job to clean his room and do his laundry--not your's, not her's. Maybe they have some arrangement such as she does his chores and he pays 75% of the rent. If they don't have an arrangement like that, then there might be something going on. I used to have female roommates and we Never Ever did one anther's dirty clothes or made one another's bed. I have never had a roommate that was a male, but I know I would not fix his bed and do his laundry. I do cook and clean for the home my hubby and I share though, which is why I have some distrust in your boyfriend, especially when he is long distances away. Trust your instincts. I know mine have always been on point.
2006-10-11 17:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's completely positive as long as you may appreciate the girls people' privateness and attempt to maintain in basic terms a friendship and not an entire-blown dating. that's the twenty first century, and you will discover so lots extra men and girls people in faculties who're roommates even although there remains some classic faculties. I definitely have guy roommates and have been residing with adult men for somewhat over a 365 days now, and that's large so a ways. there became the occasional subject approximately being uncomfortable, sharing loos, and having boyfriends or girlfriends coming over, yet my roommates and that i set out some rules to stay away from that. they are very respectful, not something awkward has occurred that we don't snicker approximately later, and privateness has consistently been cutting-edge. lady roommates are not as messy and grimy lots of the time, they are often superb to adult men, so it extremely is a sturdy stability customarily. you in basic terms ought to discover a roommate who gets alongside properly with you, shares some effortless floor with you, and who you comprehend will make a contribution to looking after the dorm or house, help pay costs, and appreciate you. additionally one that would not such as you extra desirable than friends, for the reason that ought to reason awkwardness if there became a breakup or funds loss if somebody moved out by way of fact of it. yet all in all, that's actual some thing you may check out.
2016-10-16 02:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's inappropriate for him to have a female roommate at all, but if she doesn't try anything, and she know's that he has a girlfriend then i think that all is fine
2006-10-11 17:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Sydd 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he's paying her, he's got himself a live-in maid...
if he's not, well, then she's got some issues.
but if you trust your boyfriend enough that he won't cheat on you, you have nothing to worry about and when you see him, at least you know he'll be wearing clean clothes.
2006-10-11 17:22:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she ever needs another place to stay, I have an extra room. . .
2006-10-11 17:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she slept in the bed.
2006-10-11 17:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just likes to do it? Worry about your own life.
2006-10-11 17:06:28 · answer #8 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋