I know so many people that have lost their virginity, but does that effect later relationships? What i mean is would you still marry or date someone who wasnt a virgin?
2006-10-11 16:56:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Deep down in the mind it would. If someone had gotten married, and they were both virgins, it would make the first time amazing. Nothing to compare to, no bad memories, no STD's, no worries. Someone I know once said to a people who were ridiculing him on being a virgin, but he replied "I can always be like you, but you can never be like me again." But not being one isn't a horrible thing at all. Yes, if love was in the equation, then who cares if they're not, just be wary of their morals and temper. And I mean LOVE, not feelings, strong like. Love is: to provide and protect. Nurturing into maturity. That's what love is.
2006-10-11 17:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by impossiblenightmare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would't think that it would effect a relationship later on down the road, but I personally would not want to be with someone who has had multiple partners. You would not want to get something that ajax would not wash off.
I would marry someone if they were not a virgin, but both should have testing done to know for sure. Better safe then sorry.
2006-10-12 00:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger I thought that way. I think that once someone is in their 20s they are responsible enough to have intercourse as long as they use protection and they KNOW the person and LIKE the person and that person is not involved with somebody else. Nowadays, most people are not virgins when they marry. It is socially acceptable...but someone who is young (under 20) and has had a child or children is usually looked down upon, so be responsbile and wait until you are mature and find someone who you respect and repects you. Don't be in any hurry.
2006-10-12 00:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by cadodevine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virginity does not make any difference whatsoever in this day and age.
Its always nice to be the first guy as you know she'll remember you for life, but other than that it just doesnt matter.
2006-10-12 00:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT is the last thing on my mind. If she is a virgin doesn't amount to a hill of beans. If she is honest and cares about me is way more important. You didn't say your age so I would understand if you were a teenager and saying this.
2006-10-12 00:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by sixfoot8bkr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea because people make mistakes a lot of the time your first love you think you will be with forever and it doesnt work out that way.
2006-10-11 23:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by SunShineBabe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in the grand scheme of things it shouldn't matter if you are or are not a virgin. it should matter if you and the other person have good chemistry together and if you get along otherwise.
2006-10-11 23:59:17 · answer #7 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope I believe saving yourself for marriage.
2006-10-11 23:59:22 · answer #8 · answered by Ali R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course. I would not want to be with an inexperienced man.
2006-10-11 23:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
date? yes. Marry? no. too busy rasing my girls as a single father
2006-10-12 00:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by fullmoonwolf4real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋