am i in love or am i crazy?
we been together for only a month! he told me a fell for me n i did the same! i miss himmmm soo much i wish he was here wit me everyday! but we're 2 hours apart! i love himmmm so mucH! i try n talk to him as much as i can!! i jus wish he was here by my side! my friends think i'm crazy but i think its love!!! wat do you think!!!
{note} i love him more then any guy i dated cuz he like me for my personality not just lookss!!!!!
2006-10-11 16:52:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like you feel like you have found your soulmate!! it's cool and cute!! you're just excited that you've found someone that cares for you and treats you good!! It could be love or that you're just crazy about him!! Don't rush into anything. Take your time!
Another thing is the fact that he's far away which makes it even better because you two have time to miss each other and that way you two will make the best of the time you spend together!!
Anything is possible as long as you both are willing to do whatever it takes to make things work and stay true to one another!!
Good Luck!!
2006-10-11 17:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by angellove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant really love someone till u see their true character. character is not something that u learn about someone in a month. u have no idea if this person is a good and loyal friend. how does he argue when he's mad, is he calm and logical or does he say cruel and hurtful things? If he says he's going to be somewhere, or do something, does he follow through on his obligations? Can he hold down a job? is he educated...does he care about it? Its real easy to be fooled by people when ur heart is going pitter pat. and u cant take this guys word for anything or his stories about his life for anything, b/c u have no way of confirming it. He might be sweet and sensitive now but u just dont know him well enough to know how real all that is, or how long it'll last. Also keep in mind that the fact that ur 2 hrs away from this guy just makes it easier for him to be the guy uve always dreamed about b/c he doesnt actually have to follow through on anything...ur not there. And when u are with him im sure he's great, but a weekend here, and a weekend there, does not make a relationship. And Im's,emails, texts, wutever does not let u see peoples true colors. Give it at least a year, live life w/ him a little. See if he's there for u when u need him most. C if he goes out of his way for u b/c he wants to, not b/c u asked him to. C if he's an honest and respectful person. wait and C how he handles the curveballs life throws at U guys. Wait... if its love, it'll still be love in a year. If U jump in to fast and have mistaken love for lust, ur going to be in for a long and painful lesson in love. Lust disguises itself very well as love. Love is not just about a feeling you have for someone, its about the way you treat each other and how you factor each other into your life with honesty, loyalty, and respect as a foundation. If U start off w/ a foundation of lust, your relationship will be filled with lots of great sex...along with a lot of jealusy, deceit, and tears.
Sorry, i know this is not only really long, but not wut u wanted to hear. good luck.
2006-10-12 00:22:50 · answer #2 · answered by jezabella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be determined to work things out. I've seen many relationships last for a long time with more of a time gap than 2 hours. It will work out as long as you are both determiend to make it. It's possible. Because you are so far apart it will just make all the time you're together even more special.
2006-10-11 23:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by Mish B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what? we have the same situation, i also have been exoereincing what you do....when my boyfriend went home and visited her parents, i was so wooried and missed him a lot, eventhough we had our communication everyday, i'm still missing him so much.. wishing that someday he'll be back beside me...
we really don't understand if this is love or being crazy but i can say this is merely how we express our feelings when finally we meet a person who seems to complete us, loving us not only in our looks but our inner self as well....
be confident.. absolutely your not crazy...your just being yourself just like i've realized....but don't be in a hurry to keep things complcated when you already see him, just be gentle and said; you are the best part of my life that happened to me....that's it...!
cheer up.. you are normal, i tell you...
just enjoy life with him either you are both in a distance...nevr go beyond what is to expected as BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND RELATIONSHIP,never mix your relationship with non-sense...
2006-10-12 00:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by cheng 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a little of both
2006-10-11 23:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Sydd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats really cute.
2006-10-11 23:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by Ali R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to him you obviously love him go to him go now
2006-10-11 23:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by babe girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already answered the question,,,, you said that you love him, then girl you is in love......Congratulations, now call him up, tell him you love him, & sock it to him
2006-10-12 01:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋