I went on a date this weekend with a guy. He sent all the signals he liked me. He kept wanting to extend the date, he kept asking questions about my ex-boyfriend like he was jealous, he told me how cute and beautiful I am, he said we should get together again next weekend, he kissed me, etc. So why hasn't he called me? It's been three days. And he ignored my myspace friend request! What is the problem? Does he not like me or did he change his mind or is he messing with my mind? P.S. He is just getting out of a 6 year marriage, could this have something to do with it?
2006-10-11 16:51:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All you people that are saying he played her, you're wrong.
Yes, the 6 year relationship is part of this. You guys had a great time, he was interested, but the date may have gone too well. In his position, he may feel inadequate about himself and relationships at this time. He may have tried too soon, or he may have had a hard time dealing with a successful date.
Call him and talk to him about it. I think the best thing you could say was that you had a really great time and you hoped you 2 could do it again sometime, and you understand he just got out of a long term relationship and if he is just wanting to enjoy some female companionship (and I mean a date, not hooking up), then you would enjoy that.
If he doesn't ask you out after that, then it's something else and you need to just let him go.
2006-10-11 17:02:56 · answer #1 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
P.S. He is just getting out of a 6 year marriage, could this have something to do with it?
Maybe. I can't guess what is happening or anything though.
I was going to tell you a story that might have had something useful in it, but decided maybe you will have to relax and see what happens. Good luck.
2006-10-11 17:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off it sound like to me he just wanted to get laid and i hope you did not go all the way because if you did then he is thinking ok if i can get in her pants that easy then any one can
if he did not and he ant called you by now then it could be that he was out for a piece of *** and did not get it so he is like why bother with this girl that ant going to give it up i know i sounds bad but we guys look at it as if a girl has sex on the first date then she is a hoe but if she dont then it is just a wast of time
but you said that he was a married man so that could be one othere thing wrong he dont want to move to fast any ways good luck
2006-10-11 16:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by kingkong9274 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a guy as you described, he does like you. My guess is that he is reserved about things and I wouldn't go pushing matters or he could go the opposite direction. Just be friends and if more happens then it happens but if not then treasure the time that the 2 of you had.
2006-10-11 16:56:06 · answer #4 · answered by jwise_89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down and take it easy. if he is getting out of a 6 yr marriage then chances are he needs to get it together first. give him time. if he really wants this he will call you in his time. don't push to hard because then you will just push him away. you need to be considerate of his feelings and what he could be going through. it is hard with a marriage that had lasted for so long. good luck
2006-10-11 16:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by Boo G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, the 6 year marriage would probably have something to do with it. Sorry, but he probably only went on a date to prove to himself that he still had it, you were a confidence booster for him. Better luck next time.
2006-10-11 16:53:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he was just playing you to see if he could get you to put out! Your better off finding out about his rotten behavior -so early in a relationship!
Run don't walk away from this guy--he knows not what he wants!
2006-10-11 16:54:59 · answer #7 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
id say try to ignore him for awhile, mayb u just needs sometime to think. so let him have some time, dont worry about it, mayb a better guy will come along
2006-10-11 16:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by Cutie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say so, HE ACTED!!! sorry good luck next time he just was playing that nigth, We men like to have a nice date for a night only sometimes, and he may steel married
2006-10-11 16:56:03 · answer #9 · answered by enproblemado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time. Its only three days, for heaven's sake! Take it slow dear, and you will not be dissapointed. Whirlwind romances will also mean whirlwind break-ups!
2006-10-11 17:08:04 · answer #10 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋