2006-10-11 16:47:00 · 11 answers · asked by summerfun11421 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have been friends with him forever but now i like him as a crush......he says he has gf but i do not know if that is true. I do not want to brake up a relationship if that is the case,but there is also another guy that likes me but i do not like him,and he is really jelous......I NEED HELP
2006-10-11 17:01:12 · update #1
It takes 2 people in love to make a relationship work. Turning a long-time "friend" into a lover is difficult. AND, if you do start dating and it doesn't work out, you probably have lost him as a friend.
The guy who wants to date you but is jealous of your male friend is immature. You don't want to date him anyway, so that problem solves itself.
You are correct in not breaking up your friend's relationship so he can go out with you. If he does love her and you are his friend, you would be happy for him and want their relationship to continue. Besides, if a man who has a girlfriend goes out with you and even breaks up with her for you - he is cheating. He will surely cheat on you the same way in the future.
2006-10-11 17:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by arizona wolfman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him alone. Because once he becomes your boyfriend, and some girl (who knows about you) takes him away, you will think that he and she did you wrong. Don't do it if you believe that what goes around comes around. You will only bring stress and drama on your own self. Respect his relationship that he has with this girl like you would want your relationship with someone you cared about a lot/loved to be respected. Plus, if you mess with him, he might just try to use you as a side toy. If he is not happy with her, he should make a clean break from her before he messes with you. Why do people always want what somebody else has instead of getting their own?
2006-10-11 17:01:59 · answer #2 · answered by Christa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you friends with him? If so, accept that he's your friend and nothing more, and leave it at that. If he's just 'a guy in the class', leave well enough alone. He has a girlfriend. If you tried to 'take him', chances are it will blow up in your face and leave you heart broken. It's not easy to like someone when they're not available. But if you open your eyes, and look around, I'll bet you'll find someone who likes you. And isn't already seeing someone.
2006-10-11 16:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by hrprrbn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say wait on it. You never know what could happen. They could break up, someone else could come along for you. If I were you, I wouldn't try to break up that relationship, since that may put off the guy a bit.
2006-10-11 16:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by Joy M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problem, it happens in everyone's life at least once. Don't fall for him too hard. You just have to slowly lose feelings for him. It'll take time alright but it's worth it. To take your mind of him try doing things you like and try focusing on other things. If you're in school focus on school work and earning grades for the future. Sometimes you just have to let things come to you instead of starting it.
2006-10-11 16:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone! What goes around comes around and when you find a bf someone will do the same thing to you. So show some respect and back off.
2006-10-11 16:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by my_first_love_85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont spread rumors... been there done that well my friend did.... it DOESNT work. Just act casual. Or do what I did... I told one of my close guy friends and told him not to tell him. Of course he did. But the guy ended up liking me and now we are dating.
2006-10-11 16:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by Ali R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself....
If you actually could steal him from her, would you really want him if he can be stolen?
My advice - wait. See if the opportunity presents itself if they sever their relationship.
2006-10-11 16:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by Robert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off barbie. would you want another girl scamming in on your guy, NO, It is wrong, & you know it.
2006-10-11 16:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make a move if he loves her than he will tell u that if he takes u up on your move then their u go
2006-10-11 16:49:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋