I must travel for my business and every time I do my son finds an excuse to stay at my house. He is 32 and my g/f is 34 and I am 57 Could something be going on as every time I come home they both act like they don't know me and they just hang all over each
other and say they are just being family. I am very uncomfortable with this. Should I be.
2006-10-11 16:40:17 · 34 answers · asked by irishlad 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let it ride
2006-10-13 17:13:14 · update #1
looks like the plot is thickening...or is the milk curdling in the kitty's bowl??
Why worry, by the time you sort it out there will be another f...cked up situation to deal with... who knows how many are out there? the possibilities are endless!
BTW, can I borrow the car? I seem to have misplaced mine.
2006-10-13 15:15:29 · answer #1 · answered by coffeegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, hello, is anyone in there? What do you need? To come home to a banner that say's Dad, I'm doing your woman? Family doesn't "hang all over" each other. They may hug and simple stuff like cooking dinner for all, cleaning up, maybe treating him like he is welcomed there but not too welcomed. Do you understand what I'm telling you?
And then they act like they don't know you? Does she even have sex with you anymore? Does she even sleep in the same room as you? Do you call during the week? If you do, has your son ever picked up the phone, I don't mean like once but a bunch of times? If you call, is she quick to get off the phone with you like she has something to do? That would mean a someone to do.
From the little you have put, you'd be better off kicking her to the curb and finding a woman who will be faithful to you. Or better yet, just have a bunch of flings. You travel a lot. Why not just have a booty call in each city? Nothing wrong with that. Plus, then you get to leave for home and not worry about someone who is cheating on you.
2006-10-11 16:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by Social_D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely you should be. Sounds like they'd make a splendid couple. Is this current "girlfriend's" mom single, or perhaps one of her aunts?
Please, don't misunderstand me. I am single and almost 50 and like women the age of your current girlfriend as well. To be truly honest about this, the only way I think I could seriously get a women 23 years younger than me to stay interested in me, is if I were exceptionally good looking(tall, lots of hair and no spare tire,etc.) and had a lot of cash to burn on her. I'm not and I don't, which is probably good because I simply don't have the stamina nor interests that would be compatible for a thirty-something year old female.
2006-10-11 17:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried to answer your question then...
Just like everyone else here took the time out of our evening to help you but then I just read your last post...you are a liar...either on this post or that post...so my answer to your question is Karma is a ***** and whichever problem is true...good!! You shouldn't lie...
Only a really desperate person looking for attention would come to a advice site and make stuff up...so another suggestion is get a life.
2006-10-11 16:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by Bigeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes sounds strange, what's your guts feeling the best way to get an answer is to ask yourself just before you fall off to sleep and and the first thing that comes to mind as soon as you wake, that will lead you to the truth but you have to ask your self and then let it go do not think about it or obsess and the truth will reveal it self.Relax
2006-10-11 16:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by lucky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At it again hon? You have your son's age wrong by the way, lol In the rare event that this is a serious question, that doesn't sound like the son I know, to me. But then again, what do I know. Have a fantastic night!!!
2006-10-16 14:45:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay ! Are you really 57 or are you 32?
Are you a Mormon or are you someone who makes up questions to see what kind of response is received.
Are you a man!.. or are you a woman?
Whatever!!!You are a FAKE!
2006-10-11 16:43:55 · answer #7 · answered by doggoneit 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well first of all why the hell are you going out with a 34 year old? seriously man i wanna know. and yes you should feel uncomfortable because ur woman knows "young fresh meat" when she sees it and probably realizes that your "weapon" isn't satisfying her nearly enough as a 32 year old's fresh meat...sorry to say but it's only common sense.
2006-10-11 16:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by kinggemini2007 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe your son is just attracted to her but nothing acutally happens. You could try putting a hidden video camera in the house. Yes... if they "hang all over each other" you should be worried.
2006-10-11 16:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by Sammy 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
YES, dont let your son stay at your house! and kick the girl out
2006-10-11 16:43:57 · answer #10 · answered by pink9364 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋