what if i liked this person then i feel that im just a fool in front of them.....and feel like they're using me....playing around with my love....and i feel sorry for myself even stupid...i even hate myself when i like this person then i acted like a fool in front of them....and im fool.....=) >.<
2006-10-11 16:02:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's pretty easy to beat yourself up in these situations; it's easier to say that you have problems than to say the person you have feelings for has problems. I know because, I feel myself doing the same thing. But if you truly feel as though there is no hope for your relationship, you have to end it. Especially if you feel like they're using you, that is just not cool. You deserve much better. Saying something like "keep you head up" is a useless phrase right now, but all I can say is, I wish you the best.
2006-10-11 16:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now stop that, do you know you just called yourself a fool and stupid no one is worth that. Maybe this person thinks the way you acted was well refreshing compared to the snobby way others have treated them.
The worst thing you can do is try and relive a mistake, what is done is done. If you really think that person is playing you then why do you care so much, don't give them another chance, but sounds to me like your a bit paranoid about how you act around this person, feeling sorry for yourself will only get you feeling more foolish.
Start fresh you are worth more than that and you know it, make sure the person knows it to. Don't take any crap from anyone don't matter how much you think you like them, you deserve respect and self respect comes before foolishness. God bless you honey.
2006-10-11 23:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure your not being a fool. have you asked the other person how they feel. don't think anything untill you know for sure. try talking it really dose work. Good luck.
2006-10-11 23:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down! Stop feeling sorry for yourself and don't bother anymore with this person. You need to be with someone who you feel comfortable with.
2006-10-11 23:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not stupid.the person is! i know its hard-but get rid of those who does not bring good to you. dont hate yourself over how others are treating you.you dont really need them. i'm sure there are many more people out there who can treat you well and show that you are special in some way.
2006-10-11 23:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by chandni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly calm down and just be urself if thats foolin around so be it have fun and if they think they r usin u mm what do u do that makes them feel that but anyway its their problem ok
2006-10-11 23:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by tonkatheoriginal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone makes you feel that low leave that relationship alone not healthy can come out of that
2006-10-11 23:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont put yourself down sweetie. no need, i understand feeling silly, but i usually use that to my advantage..
2006-10-11 23:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by blondie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
time to find a good therapist.
2006-10-11 23:04:35 · answer #9 · answered by HootieFan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋