Like when I'm alone with my boyfriend, I get really scared and nervous and I wanna get around people.
2006-10-11 16:01:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I really don't think it's normal for a girl to be afraid of guys. Unless something happened in your early childhood years that made you become afraid of guys? If so, that could be the problem why you are afraid of guys.
2006-10-11 16:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, have you been abused as a child?
If so, then yes. I was molested when I was 3 by a family friend and I have trouble trusting 99.9% of men.
I have been married twice but have only been with 3 men my whole life.
I am horrified to think of being in another abusive situation so I choose to live a celibate life and to live alone.
If this is not the case for you.
Then your sub-conscience is telling you that he is not the one you wish to spend the rest of your life with so quit wasting your time and move on and find someone whom you are comfortable with.
2006-10-11 16:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how long you've been around your boyfriend. Or just try to think back to a time where you got traumatized by something a guy did. Could be any guy..(dad, uncle, friend, ex...) Sorry. That's all i can help with.
2006-10-11 16:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am just the same way when i am with a guy i get nervous to its alright your not alone.
2006-10-11 16:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by jeremistocking 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure is normal.... especially when your boyfriend is a creep that makes you nervous to be around him. At what point does he really start to abuse you??
2006-10-11 16:06:05 · answer #5 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not normal around your bf that use to happen to me. B/c I didn't trust him. I get nervous around guys I don't know or hot guys.
2006-10-11 16:04:16 · answer #6 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's all guys, you might want to talk to a counselor about the way you do with interpersonal relationships. If it's just this guy, you may want to trust your instincts. Woman's intuition can be very powerful.
2006-10-11 16:04:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think tht most girls are afraid to come up and talk to us.... Why, I am not sure, were not going to hurt you, anyway Don't be afraid of guus, were just like you except we dont have thoes TWO PARTS.... HAHA.
2006-10-11 16:04:01 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have that same problem, its normal to be a little afraid. it just takes some time to feel comfortable by yourself with guys.
2006-10-11 16:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by nichelle b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats a Turn Off.
2006-10-11 16:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋