I've been a shy all life around girls because I feel that my looks
aren't in the way that a girl would be attracted to a guy like me. I've
been meaning to date girls, but I just can't. I feel like i'm not good
looking for them, what should I do? Many times I've said that I
wanted to commit suicide to ease the pressure off of me, but
couldn't. I want a girlfriend so that I'm not alone, but what should I
do as far as looks goes, which I don't have.
I mean I know people say looks don't matter, but I just can't compete for girls when it comes to guys who are good looking and buff like Vin Diesel for example. What should I do?
2006-10-11 15:57:23 · 8 answers · asked by Yoguide 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well hey man im 15 and i really dont have any truobles with girls but all i have to say is forget about ur looks and just be u. be fuuny say some jokes here and there and dont be so shy try talkin to a girl that will help. that will make u more confident. and looks dont really matter ive seen butt ugly guys with some bomb *** broads so dont worry so much
2006-10-11 16:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by Tony SS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all whatever you do dont commit suicide. The right girl will come along eventually. First thing you need to do is build up your confidence. If you dont think your good looking, why would she? Even if deep down you dont think so, tell yourself you are because it will help your self esteem. As for talking to girls, just try to start some simple conversations and get to know them a little.
2006-10-11 23:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by monkeyman16016 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the only thing I can really tell you is be yourself and be confident. Beleive me, girls are very attracted to confidence. Most girls even like nerdy guys because they are usually the sweetest. You have probablly heard beauty is only skin deep or beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Well I beleive that's true, if you beleive in yourself and beleive that you're good looking, other people will find you that way. Just try it. Don't kill yourself either...that's never a solution!! You're beautiful...I beleive it!! Do you??
2006-10-11 23:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're willing to settle for just any crappy girl. And that's not the right attitude. If you want a girl to be in a long-term relationship with her, then wait. You might have to look around a little, but she'll pop out and you'll be able to know who it is. Because whoever it turns out to be, they won't judge by appearance. TRUST ME!...If you don't want to be alone, just get a lot of friends. You don't need a girl to boost your confidence. You need to boost your confidence to get a girl . =)
2006-10-11 23:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should look for a girl who needs a companion as much as you do. If you do not expect her to be drop dead gorgeous, then maybe she will do the same for you.
Be yourself. Would you be more confident being someone else? Who do you know better, Van Diesel or yourself? It would seem to me that you would be more successful being yourself.
And if you are then confident being yourself, wouldn't it make sense to look for a girl who is confident in being herself who doesn't need to look outwardly beautiful to be beautiful to you?
2006-10-11 23:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by Delaware Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Study ther behaviors of confident people and then emulate their confidence.
2006-10-11 22:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by me8md 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get mucles boy
2006-10-11 22:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by NYC-BIGCAT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally find guys who are really nice, sweet. show your other good characteristics and i'm sure u'll be attractive.
2006-10-11 23:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by i love rain92790 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋