i can't get him out of my head and i start to cry. i wrote his name in my sketch books and have his name as my background on my computer and have a picture of him on my myspace.he was the best thing that has happened to me ,he gave me a note saying don't be mad and i'm not i'm sad and write now writing this is starting to make me cry no lie
2006-10-11 15:01:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I no how hard it is
I got cheated on by agirl i liked a lot and i had a lot of changes
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2006-10-11 15:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by stag89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG-notes, sketch books, sweetie you are a baby. Really I am not being smart- you must be about 14 or 16. Stop crying. Wipe the tears, it will be okay. He is not the best thing that ever happened to you, you dont know what will happen tomorrow or in a month. He dumped you because- I dont know and you may not know- but maybe it is just the way things need to be for you to find that right one. Welcome to adult hood. But I wish you happiness and I do hope you stop crying- you will see years from now High school love aint **** compaired to the real stuff.
2006-10-11 15:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by BeautyMark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if he broke up with you "2day", then you have every right to be sad and crying. It's still very fresh! Crying is good and each day you'll feel better and better. Also, get rid of the pictures or put them away, b/c that won't make it any better. Finally, you sound young, so don't worry, you have many more men to meet in your lifetime!!
2006-10-11 15:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by Roseann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably not going to get him out of your head tonight, so don't worry about that. You should probably try not to set yourself up to just keep remembering him though. Putting his name and pictures all over everything will do nothing more than prolong your misery. I know in my case, I've done that because it sort of made me feel good to feel miserable. I tried to keep feeling bad as a way to prove how much I cared about the other person, but you really just need to care about yourself. Hang out with your friends, trust me, they'll find ways to cheer you up. Do things for yourself. Make a list of things you want to improve about yourself. Focus on yourself and all the people that you can be thankful for being around you.
2006-10-11 15:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by hawkeye847 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what to tell you in this situation. I've never had a girlfriend. I'm 17 and have always been single. My best advice to you is to confide in your dad or ask for help from you school counselor. My great aunt passed away yesterday and it's been hard for me for the past 24 hours. I know if I can make it through a death of a woman I've been close to since I was young, you can manage this. All you need to do is find someone to talk to and ask for help. Please, just make the internet your absolute last resourt to find help.
2006-10-11 15:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a few more hours and a few days. You are reeling right now because it's so new. Give yourself time to digest this and think clearly. I mean, do you really want to be with someone who doesn't want you or doesn't know what he wants? Better to cry now and get him out of your system than have to deal with a flakey guy. That's what he sounds like...saying, "don't be mad". What exactly does he expect? You have every right to feel mad or sad. It's your feelings, not his. Good luck, hun.
2006-10-11 15:05:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of course he was on your background and on your other stuff and of course you're crying... it's normal; I mean I cry sometimes when I can't get a girl to like me but you'll get over it... I promise :). Just keep your head up and hang out with your friends... get your mind out of him for as long as you can! and don't worry about crying, it shows you care; you'll either get over it in time or you'll can't cry anymore :). Just don't worry about it much and and live :).
2006-10-11 15:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by yoyay!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend broke up with you? for what reason? Im hoping its all worth the break because if not, you have to let him go and life must go on. I know its very painful but time heals and Im pretty sure you can handle it, believe in yourself, there are lots of deserving guys out there waiting for you. Break a leeg! :)
2006-10-11 15:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by shaznay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he break up with you because you were a little overly infatuated?
guys don't like to know that you're SOOOOO in love with them and that they're ALL you think about.
Just try keeping your mind on other things. Clean or play video games or go for a run or something.
2006-10-11 15:05:15 · answer #9 · answered by sadlymistaken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl...
it comes with time...
everyone broke up before...
and well...we're all still alive ain't we...
it is more of a period to adapt...
to get used to doing things and going out without the constant company...
i know it's hard...because all the places seem to carry some memory...
but the hurt will fade...
be strong...u'll get past this!
2006-10-11 15:05:36 · answer #10 · answered by juz_moi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋