see all your advice is correct but the thing is he came out and told me that he kissed her and apologized and still is hes begged me a milliion times saying that im the only one for him and wrote me a long letter im just so hurt but yet so in love.....
2006-10-11 14:58:41 · 33 answers · asked by jessica p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's all up to you if you wanna stay or go....i do give him credit for telling you, although he was wrong....but he confessed and that takes alot of courage to do...my guess is after he kissed her....he realized that kiss was not worth losing you behind....if you wanna give him a second chance then go ahead...but if it happens again i strongly suggest you find someone else that will appreciate you.
2006-10-11 15:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he told you, do not dump him. It is the hardest thing in this world to find someone honest. He truly feels bad about it. Stay with him. If it happens again- dump him because you are more important than anyone else- ever. You need to do whats best for you. Needless to say that this does give you some insight. He was tempted and that should definitly play a factor in your decision.
2006-10-11 15:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by BeautyMark 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen, I don't know about things like this cuz most of my friends have had their boyfriends do that. Then months later they find out that they have been cheated on. Take the advice or not. But study him closely and see what happens next. Give him a second chance but the next time he does it end it!
2006-10-11 15:02:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't give the best advice, so you probably should only think of doing this. Go get drunk with him. I dunno why! JUST DO IT! Then like make him fall madley in love with you and then when he says "Hey female companion of mine, I really seriously, truely am in love with you. No I don't love you, I AM in love with you! I love you so much! I really love you!" Make him cry that he loves you! Then go get pregnant by some other guy and tell your bf you don't love him. Just be like "Yo boyfriend of mine that kissed another girl a while back, I don't love you. I don't even like you. I HATE YOU! but we can still be friends." Break his little pathetic heart! HA HA HA HA!!! Revenge is not the best way to do things.
2006-10-11 15:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gotta give him props for admitting it, though that certainly doesn't neutralize what he did. If he kissed someone else, then obviously there are issues with his character and/or feelings for you. Although I think he may deserve a 2nd chance, and is no doubt what you will ultimately give him, don't give in immediately. Tell him you want need your space and let him work at proving he's worthy of your affection.
2006-10-11 15:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by aint_no_stoppin_us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is the second time he's done this, BREAK UP WITH HIM. No matter what you can't stay with a guy that you can't trust. Why would he kiss another girl if he's "so in love" as you say.. If he had feelings for you he wouldn't do this to you..
2006-10-11 15:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he keeps apologizing and begging for your forgiveness.. I'm sure he regretted what he did. Give the guy another chance and let him know that you are. If it happens again, then tell him to kiss it.
2006-10-11 15:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he doesn't feel the same way about you then you feel about him, its obvious. If he loved you that much he would have never kissed another girl, he shouldn't even be thinking about kissing someone else.
As much as it hurts, I would dump him.
He is not worth it and you should find someone better and someone who feels the way you do about them.
2006-10-11 15:05:13 · answer #8 · answered by PeachN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should make out with me to get even...just kidding...
You will Never trust him again...trust is CRITICAL to any relationship...end it now while it doesn't hurt as much...
Now should you take him back if he proves that he only likes you over a long period of time? That is an answer for another question...
2006-10-11 15:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by Bigeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could happen to anyone especially to young people. Forgive and forget if you can. Show yourself as a magnanimous young woman. Life is too short and should not be wasted for petty matters.
2006-10-11 15:02:02 · answer #10 · answered by Freddy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋