first bf?!?!?!?

Question

well i have my first bf and he is really sweet
but i think he doesnt like me as much as he used to
and he has a history of breaking up with girls after like a week or two and it has almost been a week
i am kind of worried
any suggestions from guys around 14 that would like to help?
i just need a way to make sure he likes me
so if u know ways to tell if a 14 yr old guy likes a girl and wat u can do to make sure they still like u
plz help guys
best answer with most advice gets 10 pts

Answer 1

You are way too young to get involved with this kind of manipulative, wishy-washy jerk. Actually, no age is the right age... except the age where you realize that you don't deserve this kind of crap PERIOD and you ditch him.

There are three reasons he's doing this.
1. He doesn't know what he wants.
2. He's afraid of continuing anything or getting more involved.
3. He's a jacka$$ who just likes fooling around with lots of girls and then dumping them.

The first two mean he's not mature enough to continue a relationship. The third means he's not WORTH trying to have a relationship with.

How to tell if he likes you, VALUES you, and is worth committing to:
--He makes an effort to spend time with you
--He seems to genuinely enjoy that time
--You enjoy your time together, not because he's 'cool' or 'hot' but because you have things to talk about, laugh about, similar interests, etc.
--He isn't constantly trying to push your comfort levels
--He isn't trying to get you to do anything more sexual than you're comfortable with
--He isn't trying to involve you in anything dangerous like drugs
--He treats you the same way in front of his friends and when you're alone (tough for young guys)

If he's violating any of those, consider breaking up with him, not waiting for the axe to fall on you. You deserve better.

Answer 2

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