Why are ALL women this way?

Question

ok i dont get it why are yall so jealous and protective? my gf get's so mad when i tlk to a girl other than her for longer than an hour. like even if i go to visit my ex gf without her she gets so mad i mean it's not like we are going to kiss or anything.

Answer 1

evidently she doesn't trust you. even if she can't admit that to herself. i used to say it's the girls i don't trust but i realized it was my man i didn't trust.i didn't know what he would do if a woman came on to him.she probably has a low self esteem also. which is very hard to live with . you should constantly help her with this.it is very hard for a woman to get over a low self esteem

Answer 2

If I was with my boyfriend and he was talking to another girl on the phone for more than an hour, I think I have every right to be upset and feel disrespected. It is okay to have other friends of the opposite sex, but I feel like those relationships should have limits and not have the same privileges as me and my boyfriend relationship. And from my own personal experiences, I will not even put up with a boyfriend that visits his ex-girlfriend at her home or is still real close friends with her. It's not about jealousy or about insecurity/protectiveness for me. It's about two things: respect and being on the same page--that's all. That is my stance, I will not argue with him about it, I will just let the relationship go and walk away because I know what i have learned from those kinds of situations. Women in general seem that way (like your gf) because many women have at one time or another had an experience with this type of situation and the guy was sooner or later caught cheating. so maybe you should be with a Woman who doesn't have any experience or who is a little naive and gullible.

Answer 3

Think about this, Zack. If you saw your GF talking to a bunch of other good-looking guys, wouldn't you get a teensy bit jealous? Or more than a teensy bit? Especially if it was with someone she already once had a relationship with? Consider this: Maybe, it isn't just women....

Try not to be too hard on your girl for getting jealous and also, it's not a bad thing to talk to other girls, just not too much flirting, kay? If you do you are most definitely bringing it on yourself.

Answer 4

Maybe she should go visit with her ex boyfriend for over an hour or so and not kiss him or anything, then maybe she would understand your views. Or heck maybe she should just go on vacation with him and not stay in the same hotel room and not kisss or anything, then she might have a real good understanding of your concerns with her issues with you hanging out with your ex girlfriend and not kissing or anything.

Answer 5

hold up now, first off, you shouldn't characterize all women. that's not fair unless you have met all of the women that there are in the world, and i know for certain that you haven't bcuz u haven't met me! now i don't know why your girl would get upset whenever you talk to a girl. Maybe she's afraid that you are going to cheat on her, have you ever done this b4 or given her reason to believe that you would?? and why are you going to your x's house anyway? what does she have for you? that in itself can make anybody (male or female) a little curious. just think about it, how would you feel if you found out that she was going to see her x boyfriends and didnt' tell you or take you? apparently she don't trust you all that much.

Answer 6

Dude I know you might be telling the truth, but it's pretty disrespectful to be going to your ex's house...why put yourself in that situation. Why put your relationship through the stress? You wouldn't like it if she was hanging out with her ex BF at his house...Don't lie and say you wouldn't care either.

While I agree jealousy is a bad trait...but trying to get them jealous is a worse trait...what defines" justifiable jealousy"? That is an answer for another question...

Answer 7

All women actually aren't jealous or protective. As for your gf, she's right to be annoyed. WTF do you need to visit your ex gf for? You're exes for a reason- let it go. Sometimes, women only react to what they're given, so stop giving her reasons to be jealous. When you act all nonchalant about her being upset, it isn't comforting to her and makes things worse.

Answer 8

You are not ready for a committed relationship. You are not considering your girlfriends feelings. Its not that she's jealous, she's not being treated right. She should come first. If you are still friends with your ex, take your girlfriend with you. It sounds like you are just a player. How many women do you need to dangle from one of your twenty gold chains?

Answer 9

1. We are not ALL this way.
2. Let's put this shoe on the other foot, shall we? How would you feel if she went to visit her ex bf without you?
3. Girls have feelings just like guys....if you care about her, you will stop doing things that will cause her feelings to be hurt.

Answer 10

Duh?!? You're not offering her enough security in your relationship obviously. I would say she probably has had a guy cheat on her. OR The other bombshell is that her girlfriends and saying, "Girl, you better reign him in or he's going play you for a fool cause he's out with his ex behind your back."

What if the shoe was on the other foot and she's spending time alone with an ex boyfriend. Maybe an ex boyfriend that she was intimate with. Would you be comfortable with the fact that a player is loose with your girlfriend?

Answer 11

Not all women act like this. But, if she had an ex that threatened you, would you act all cool? Maybe your current gf thinks the ex is more attractive.