Both girls really like me alot. I do not like either one of them enough for a serious relationship. Their telling me that sex could change how I feel. The girls do not know each other.
2006-10-11 14:49:28 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not at the same time
2006-10-11 14:52:02 · update #1
You are absolutely wrong..
2006-10-11 14:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by Deleted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you talking at the same time or on different occasions (lol)? sex does change relationships and it could change how you feel about them (negitive, or positive). but, you already answered your own question when wrote that you don't like either of them enough for a serious relationship! unless your a dawg... don't do it!!!
2006-10-11 15:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by alex t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them about each other and see if they feel comfortable with you being so open and out like that. Otherwise, if you're too chicken to tell, well, make sure you're really cautious. Use birth control and practice other safe sex methods, no matter what you decide! Have a blast! Sex is awesome!
2006-10-11 14:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by Green Fairy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do that cause then you will be sleeping with them only to know who you will like better. If you don't like any of them enough to have a relationship, then you should just let them know this. Having sex with both girls will only make you a playa. I'm sure you don't want that title be somehow imposed on you. Just be honest with them man.
2006-10-11 14:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, your not in a relationship, you are single, you can do what you want. Sex might change how you feel, if you start to like one, stop seeing the other, no problem. I know girls sleep around, they have no problem with it.
2006-10-11 14:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by Baba Ganoush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure as long as you have told them you are not in a commited relationship yet...but after you decide on one and actually sit down and define the relationship...then it's not ok...
Just an FYI...you dont want a girl who thinks if she sleeps with you you'll like her more...but THAT is an answer for another question...
2006-10-11 14:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by Bigeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just LOOKING for trouble with a capital T!! I would stay away from this situation. Either pick one, or pick neither. Playing around with girls that know each other is only going to put your azz in the doghouse!
2006-10-11 14:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not OK if you plan to have any real relationship with either of them. If they matter to you at all, you'll respect the feelings which would probably result from multiple sex partners.
2006-10-11 14:51:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CAREFUL!
it can b very difficult holding onto 2 ladies at once unless u tell them upfront it is friendship with priviledges is all that u want....
a player if u will!!!
but 'test-driving' the ladies is rude and you'll lose both should
they find out what your up to
2006-10-11 14:56:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that as long as you are honest with them that you do not want a committed relationship with them and you don't think sex would change that , then if they still want to and you do you are not doing anything wrong.
2006-10-11 14:58:43 · answer #10 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you. Just use protection and realize that your risk of std's go up with the more partners you have.
However, you should let the girls know that sex may not change your feelings for them.
2006-10-11 14:52:11 · answer #11 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋