hello I just had a bad incident tonight with a couple of aquaintances of mine, but we no longer talk after tonight, simply because they could not be nice to me. all they done was give me evil looks for months, and talk behind my back. why do women do that. why aren't women striaght up with men? seems that all women like to do is play mind games with nice, respectful guys. damn this sucks.
2006-10-11 14:46:32 · 19 answers · asked by Shyguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And the why often is because of how most guys treat women. Many of them have become very cautios because of the poor way most men treat women. Unfortunately the few good men in the world end up paying for the wrongs of the many bad ones. I'm not saying this is always the case and there are many out there that arent that way. this is just a regular cause of that kind of attitude.
2006-10-11 14:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Blaze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to tell you the truth. You're wrong. Not all women do that. I'm sorry you had to experiance the those slime that do. But, you asked why, so I'll attempt to explain as best as I can....Women are gossips for a number of reasons, 1 being that the way you dress is weird (according to them) which means that you don't look "normal." Do you have shifty eyes? That could be an issue. Another thing is the way you act (or have acted in the past). Trust me, there are ways that women know how you act or how you used to act. It's the reality of the past coming back to haunt you. Maybe you're mysterious? If so, then a devious, hurtful women may have started a rumor about you to explain why you're so mysterious. Women will usually believe something if enough people are spreading it. What are your friends like? The group of people you hang with, let's face facts, you're usually like. Your aquaintences may know people that you know and they may not like them, therefore, they don't like you. So, there's the basics. Hope I helped a little.
2006-10-11 14:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take it personally, because I bet those same women are talking about one another to someone else. That's just a sign of immaturity. So consider yourself lucky that you have the chance to unassociate yourself with these "girls". A real woman will be straight up with a guy whether he likes what he hears or not. Women do not play mind games or act silly. Grown up girls do those things.
2006-10-11 14:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by Meesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a very mature view of women. You are hanging around with the wrong ones. Guys can play just as many, if not worse mind games with women. WOMEN do not talk behind people's backs,....little GIRLS do.
2006-10-11 14:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your aquainted with the wrong kind of women.
2006-10-11 14:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of women are you attracted to? Do you go for the sexy girls w/o considering what kind of person they are? If you chose a nice respectful girl she will treat you the way you treat her.
2006-10-11 14:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by nyasasmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls are like this only the insecure ones are. IF they have no confidence in their self then they put other people down to make themselves feel better.
Don't even worry about it, they sound like they are not even worth your time. You are probably better off without those shallow bitches!
2006-10-11 14:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by PeachN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women try to "read" guys and see what's going through their head, but certain ones go too far.
but you shouldn't say that most do.
i'm too outspoken to talk behind someone's back. a genuine person would be proud of their hatred and say it to the other person's face.
2006-10-11 14:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by echo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so right! i hate when girls talk behind boys back. consindering i'm a girl, that's weird. i haven't once talked behind a girl's back. do you have a friend thats a girl that is willing to be like your "spy" or something. maybe? look, maybe you should go up to that group of gossiping girls and tell them, hey i didn't do ANYTHING wrong. if i did tell me, i like to make up for my mistakes. what's going on? if i didn't, stop talking behind my back and giving me dirty looks. or else i'm just going to figure you hav ea crush on me. something like that
good luck. i probably didn't help, sorry
2006-10-11 14:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by chaos causer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women play mind games. Actually MY MAN plays mind games. How about I leave him for you? lol. Good luck!
2006-10-11 14:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋