me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months and we are very much in love but he kissed another girl at a homecoming dance but says it was because he was stressed out and didnt mean it and hes apologized more than you can imagine i just dont know what to do because my trust for him is gone and im stuck in such a bad position
2006-10-11 14:40:54 · 18 answers · asked by jessica p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you cant have a relationship without trust. Its the key element. If you dont trust him, than you should save yourself the grief and dump him. Despite how hard that will be.
ANother thing, im a guy, If he truly loved you, regardless how stressed he is/was, thats NO excuse to kiss another girll..
You dont have to deal with this.
IF you let him get away with it once, he'll do it again
2006-10-11 14:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to talk about it. Tell him how you feel. Don't "get back" at him, because that'll just ruin the relationship. If you want to try and work it out it's going to take a long long time for you to get that trust back. It'll be hard. However, if this happens again, you should dump him for good.
2006-10-11 14:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by yblur 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This isn't good cuz that means that he has temptations to cheat on u. Although it starts out with a kiss, it can go beyond that. See how things go on for at least 1 month later. Check his behavior closely and see how he acts around other females. look out for yourself cuz guys like that don't care. They will stick their D**K andy where. Becareful!
2006-10-11 14:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Together for 4 months-I doubt that he is in love let alone you but you can do much better then him. Drop him like a hotpotato. Plus you are in High School...you have much life to live.
2006-10-11 14:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is an obvious answer. Break up with him! He is no use for you and he doesn't truly love you, if he did he wouldn't do that to another girl. Get a guy who truly cares and you'll see the difference.
2006-10-11 14:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its obvious thats he loves you alot, and he will do anything for you if he told you if he apoligized that much too...so stay with him forever and marry him have his kids, be happy...how did he treat you? was he always there for you? and how much in love with him are and.... Do you know how much he loves you??? HOw does he make you feel? do whatever makes you happy
2006-10-11 15:20:09 · answer #6 · answered by Tboii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in love. He wouldn't have kissed the other girl if you were. Dump him and find someone that appreciates you.
2006-10-11 14:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by shakopcool 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's ****** up. Leave him. You're young. You've got a lot more boyfriends to go through, dear.
2006-10-11 14:49:16 · answer #8 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if he really means it then forgive him and always be around him to make sure he doesn't do it again! But if he does it again then tell him it is over between u and him, k? But if he is truly-trustworthy then forgive him!
2006-10-11 14:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ღ...∂αηg3яσυѕℓу ιη ℓσν3...ღ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the trust is gone there can be no relationship.
2006-10-11 14:47:56 · answer #10 · answered by fallenangel4504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋