hey im 15 and am wondering what is the best way to go up to a girl to meet her if i think i might want to start getting to know her and eventually dating her? thanx 4 caring :)
2006-10-11 14:38:05 · 14 answers · asked by cool boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be cool. don't be like HEY I SOOOOOOOOO WANT TO BE LIKE YOUR FRIEND. THIS IS SOOOOOOOOO COOL. YOU'RE SOOOOOOOOO COOL. LET'S START GOING OUT 'CAUSE YOUR SOOOOOOOOOO CUTE! don't do that. just go up to her one day when she's buying lunch. go behind her so you can talk to her. talk to her about things that you know about her from class. then, hopefully, you can ask her if she wants to sit with you. maybe she'll agree and you'll be total friends.
now, to ask her out. be cool, not sudden. you shouldn't rush anything. take to know her for about 6 months, then ask her. yoou can use roses and her favorite flower. you can sky write something, which sounds corny. slip it in casually like you're looking for a "playdate". do you want to go out to dinner sometime?
good luck!!!
2006-10-11 14:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by chaos causer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to see if she has instant messenger(its alot easier if your shy) also you get to know eachother better. If you have a class with her you may "not get " the homework assignment and could ask her for help and even talk about ur teacher(thats a good conversation starter if your teachers mean or whatever). I hope everything goes good.
2006-10-11 21:45:04 · answer #2 · answered by ~*~Brittany~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get to know her interests and approach her in that way, she'll be very impressed. Then slowly, but surely, ask her out. You don't want to come off as desparate or too assertive, so take it slow and I bet she'll give you a chance! Good luck!
2006-10-11 21:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by Green Fairy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUst talk to her casually and dont try to be too cool
I am a 16 yr old girl incase u wonderning
2006-10-11 21:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If at school: Ask about homework in a class (provided she's in your class), compliment a shirt, if she is wearing a band shirt ask their genre or something about the band or comment on the band... anything! Be creative! ;)
...And don't forget to smile! lol
2006-10-11 21:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by No O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catch her when she is not with a group of friends and say hi. See where it goes from there. Good luck!!
2006-10-11 21:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by denpita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eih go to a place where you can talk like a quiet cafe to chill out..then after that go to a place where you can have some fun like an arcade..enjoy!
2006-10-11 21:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by queen_maan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus go up 2 her be cool nd come up with any subject like skool, sports or sumthing
2006-10-11 21:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by loveee201 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to her and say hi and introduce yourself and small talk and if you see her in the hallway or something wave or smile or say hi to her!!good luck!!!
^peace out^
2006-10-11 21:44:46 · answer #9 · answered by ~Bubblii~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just introduce yourself and say hey, you know small talk. ^_^ let one thing need to another
2006-10-11 21:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by kpop_singer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋