okay,i dated this guy and i thought he was perfect,well i still do and we go to school together and we ride the bus together and we broke up on exactly the 2 week day of our relashonship because he wanted to be "just friends" and i didnt,but i couldnt tell him that so now its been a little over a month,and he flirts with me and asked me if i had a bf and brings up stuff from our relashonship...and its not that he was a good boyfriend he forgot to call alot and he flirts with girls alot but i really like him he was the first guy to break up with me and before we dated i liked him for a year...well the other day he talked about trying to set me up with his friend..and it kinda felt like an insult that he thought i couldnt get a boyfriend instead of the fact im not over him ,, i dont want to be just friends but i dont want to be nothing to him what should i do(ps. im pretty sure he has a gf too)and the worst part he wants us to be really good friends and i cant get over him.Help! please
2006-10-11 14:28:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't let him string you along-- if you can't stand to be around him without wanting to be with him than give yourself some space-- once some time passes or you meet someone else than maybe you can be friends-- but until than don't waste your time or energy-- he's a boy and probably gets off on trying to get a reaction from you- it makes him feel good to know that you still want him-- if he's not willing to commit to you than don't give him the satisfaction of seeing you lust after him
2006-10-11 14:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by tessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems pretty clear: at this point, he's only willing to be friend, but not more than that. He doesn't want to be a BF just yet, but he wants to keep this option open for the future. If this is not acceptible to you, move on.
About this other guy.... Do you really HAVE to have a bf? Learn to be on your own, without any bf as long as it is necessary. It is better than running from bf to bf.
2006-10-11 14:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww. I don't have any good advice honey. I'm sorry to hear that! OH! Man, if I were you I would get drunk and move on. And drink and have fun... you'll find a better guy hopefully. Just believe that there are plenty more good fish in the sea.
2006-10-11 14:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u see urself settling down with such man. I don't think so. I think you're still young thus get yourself busy with things. I'm sure u'll get a better guy that give u the love u wanted.
2006-10-11 14:33:07 · answer #4 · answered by Sob Sob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep with someone else and then tell him about it dont use protection because if you catch something then you can blame it on him hit him where it hurts that will show him as for your disease dont worry about drink clorox it will get rid of anything
2006-10-11 14:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by asswiper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u can. he doesnt seem interested he'll just break your heart again. but if u want him back go on a double date with him and his friend, and work ur magic
2006-10-11 14:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by v-ballgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him set you up with his friend. make him jealous. pretend like you're really into the guy. i did it and my ex boyfriend broke up with his girlfriend and told me he loved me and we got back together. the guy i was going out with, i set up with his ex girlfriend and everythings fine now.
2006-10-11 14:32:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im srry but i dident read it it was 2 long
2006-10-11 14:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by ♥chelsea♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I THINK YOU SHOULD LEAVE HIM ALONE BECAUSE IF YOU TELL HIM SOMETHING HE THINK THAT YOU ARE REALLY DESPERET AND I DON'T THINK THAT YOUR DESPERET K SO PLEASE I KNOW IT IS HARD AND YOU DON'T WANT TO BUT PLEASE TRY.
2006-10-11 14:35:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋