In other words, when fantasy becomes reality, do things go wrong? Or is it possible for you to just treat the other woman as an "accessory" and maintain committed feelings toward your partner?
2006-10-11 14:25:02 · 9 answers · asked by penny4yourthoughts 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is not a good idea. everyone has a jealous streak in them no matter what kind of relationship you have. trust me when i say it will reel its ugly head. if you have any real feelings for this man you will be jealous. no doubt about it! now lets say you are in the middle of this 3some and you notice that he has done something to her he has never done with you, or he says things to her but doesn't talk to you when your with him alone. what do you think is going to happen? can you honestly say that you would be ok with that? i know i sure wouldn't. don't do it if you value your relationship.
2006-10-11 14:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you keep a open mind and know the difference between reality and fantasy. We have 3 some and 4 some all the time. It can be great fun as long as you understand that sex is not love and love is not sex. Go for it and enjoy your self and have fun.
2006-10-11 14:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whose fantasy is it - yours or his? If you are a couple and it is his fantasy, that means he can't be satisfied with just you and that should tell you something. If you are a couple and it is your fantasy the no, and it should tell him something. If you are not a couple it doesn't matter who's fantasy it is and no you have no reason.
If you have a 3-some and you are not really into it for whatever reason, you're relationship with him will be scarred forever. Is this what you really want? Don't do it just to make him happy because once leads to twice, twice leads to three times, etc, etc.
2006-10-11 14:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from a male's point of view, I would love to say yes, but the fact of the matter is, of course you would have to worry about jealousy. I mean, what if the sex with her is incredible? Also, are you going to be participating with her sexually? Maybe you will find that you really enjoy her, as well! So, he may actually have reasons to worry, too.
2006-10-11 14:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by benjaminturi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When fantasy becomes reality, reality and fantasy become one, and after awhile, you can't tell the difference. Not a good idea...
2006-10-11 14:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO, are you out of your mind, i believe if a man whats more than he has got (you), then tell him to sling his hook, because he is NOT worthy of you, otherwise he would NOT think of another woman or a 3 some, if you are in a trusted relationship WHY should you put yourself in the firing line for any infected disease, give him the elbow & keep yourself safe & healthy,
2006-10-11 14:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you invite me then it would be a wholesome 4 some!
The reality of fantasy can be kind of sticky though...
2006-10-11 14:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i could only treat the other woman as an accessory.
and if my wife got along with it i would realize my marrage was over.
2006-10-11 14:31:55 · answer #8 · answered by dewstate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya it can be done for instance i could be your third guy
2006-10-11 14:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋