2006-10-11 14:21:05 · 13 answers · asked by freaklady09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make friends with guys who are nice but who you aren't interested in dating. Being around them and talking to them will give you great practice. Plus, who knows, you may end up being attracted to them. Also, try getting involved in some activity and then talkiing to the guys there. For example, a church group or a volunteer project--you can always start out talking about what's going on with the project and then go from there. Just remember guys are nervous too, and anyone that makes you feel bad while you talk with them isn't worth your time. Finally, asking guys questions about themselves always seems to get them talking without you having to say much. Good luck!
2006-10-11 14:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm a fairly shy guy, so I can identify with what you're going through. First of all, don't overthink everything. I've always been bad at questioning myself and whatever I say. It's easier and more effective if you can speak naturally. You also have to realize that everybody has some sort of anxiety when it comes to new people. It's entirely possible that they guy you're talking to is just as shy and nervous as you are. Just take it easy, don't overthink everything, and try to shift the focus from yourself. If you focus more on the other person, you'll be a much more effective speaker.
2006-10-11 14:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by hawkeye847 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually there's always a guy to home u can talk with like if he was an old classmate of urs. U don't have to pressure ur self to talk to a guy. There will be one that just one day may talk to u or u can talk to a guy while he's alone. Just ask him a question about something. Jus make it up! Make sure the conversation is interesting!
2006-10-11 14:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you make a complete fool of yourself, just try to overcome this shyness. I wen through that too, during huricane katrina, (ACK!!!) I used to be very shy and had way stagefright. Then I had to say a sermon infront of 1000 people. There goes the shyness and stage fright.
2006-10-11 14:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel. If there is a guy u like try 2 find something u have in common and then just ask him a Q about it. B4 u know it u'll have no prob talking 2 guys.
2006-10-11 14:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by malford17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's no big deal. the same thing happens to me. just ask him a simple question like what time is it or which way to the bathroom. guys are just as timid as girls.
2006-10-11 14:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by Shademediumdeep3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some alcohol! It works wonders in the field of communication.
2006-10-11 14:24:05 · answer #7 · answered by benjaminturi 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to them of course! Otherwise you will never come out of your shell and wonder 'what if'.
2006-10-11 14:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by brattybard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to me mattthemechanic1@yahoo.com
im nice
2006-10-11 14:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by MAtt M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to me. I'll be nice!
2006-10-11 14:22:14 · answer #10 · answered by Mark C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋