Am I really worse of a person than they are?
If I started abusing women (physically, verbally, emotionally, etc.), would that make me a better man?
2006-10-11 14:18:07 · 16 answers · asked by A Box of Signs 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you start artificially abusin women since it's not in your character it will make you look totally weird. They will run away from you even faster. Believe it or not, abusers are complete characters (not very good ones).
You should do what you believe is right. A right girl will come alone eventually.
2006-10-11 14:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that some women have shown you that to be true. No, it would not make you a better man. Please stay true to what you are and don't become the abusive one because you THINK that is what is preferred... it is not.
There have been times when I thought the reverse to be true. It seemed that the nicest of men always were with the women who treated them poorly.
Sometimes, we just are where we are to one day truly treasure something very good when it comes our way.
2006-10-11 21:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, It just seems there are more jerks out there than good guys. It takes some women a while to find the good ones. Being abusive is a horrible thing and it won't bring any good to anybody.
2006-10-11 14:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by pixie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pyro Kitten: There are no nice guys that are masculine. Nice guys are followers. Masculine guys are leaders and it is by design that exciting women are attracted to them. The key is to be just as strong, just as aggressive as they are and win their respect. First, you need to know who you are. Put down on paper all of your good and bad qualities. Then accept the good qualities and work on improving the others. Then love yourself. Care about your body, mind and soul. Listen to powerful music, eat healthier, exercise, read nonfiction books, watch grand movies and meditate, to name a few. Study the things that give you joy and find a masculine guy who likes to do them, too. And if he doesn't treat you right, leave him at the drop of a hat. Make him apologize if he wants you back and don't accept his apology the first time. Make him ask for it a second time. If he comes through, you've got him!
2016-03-28 05:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that certain women are 'wired' to connect love with some kind of abuse or mistreatment. It is not healthy and you do not want that kind of woman. People and women in particular need to go thru counselling to help them 're-wire' their belief system so that they can learn that a man like you would be a better choice for them and learn new ways to attach the idea of love and affection with being treated well.
In the meantime, you need to stay just the way you are, dear. And begin your process of 'rewiring' so that you are attracted to the ones who don't have that pattern in their life.
Something to think about, heh?
2006-10-11 14:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by Serendipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ARE the rare gem in the bag, and don't abuse women in any manner, can I have your phone number?? Actually, I feel you will someday, find your rare gem as well. You sound like a nice fella, and I hope you find that SPECIAL someone who will respect you for that special quality, as well as other qualities that you may have. Good Luck, and like I tell my daughter............There is that special someone out there for you, and when it's the right time, you'll meet.
2006-10-11 15:14:39 · answer #6 · answered by Jillybeanyweiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're absolutely not a horrible guy, but you would be if you became abusive in any way.
Just so you know, there are some of us girls who appreciate and seek guys who treat us right :)
Good luck finding that special someone
2006-10-11 14:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women who want abusive men have emotional problems. It's that simple.
2006-10-11 14:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutley not,abusing women will not make you better. Just stay the way you are. You will find someone eventually!
2006-10-11 14:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by fallenangel4504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women who want someone who abuses them usually are insecure. You should keep being a nice guy... eventually you'll meet someone who deserves you!
2006-10-11 14:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by Jenny7779 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋