why is it so superficial these days?!
huh?! what ever happened to good old fashioned things like feelings! like heart!
now its all about the money! the looks! the sex!
society has degraded to the point where if a dude hasn't made a million bucks, driving around in a fancy car, slept with 15 women by the time he's 27, then women dont want him no more! whats going on here? what has happened to this world? to society? where are the values anymore?
2006-10-11 14:16:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd really like to know the answer to that one too.
But for myself personally... looks are secondary in a relationship. I'd rather have a guy who was mediocre looking but had a good personality, was honest, respected me, and liked me for who I am than a guy who was hot but fell short in the other things.
Also, I don't care if a guy doesn't make a million bucks. As long as he has enough money to support us and our family, even if I have to work a bit too, that's fine. I'd rather be not rich and happy than rich and unhappy.
As far as sex, I really would rather not have a guy who's slept with a whole bunch of women. To me it (in some cases) would show me that he has little respect for women. I'm still a virgin, and plan to wait, and while I don't expect the guy I'm with to be, I don't want him having slept with a bunch of women.
So yes, there are some of us girls who appreciate guys with feelings, heart, morals, etc. Good luck finding your special girl if you havent :) (and good luck to all the other ladies and gents who haven't found their special someone)
2006-10-11 14:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just haven't found the right woman. I know men are accused of being shallow but it seems more and more than women are becoming just as shallow. If it makes you feel better i'm getting married to a man that quit working to go back to school and he has two kids and he was driving a van when i met him. he has only had sex with five women and I was glad it wasn't so many. He doesn't have any money cause he is going to school and doing work study. So there are some decent women out there.
2006-10-11 14:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by snail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, a woman goes for a guy with looks and money. Yet that's only part of it! "The old fashioned things like feelings! like heart!" is also INCLUDED too.
2006-10-11 14:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by !~bela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of us are animals! Fortunately, there is almost always a turning point where we realize that there is more to a meaningful relationship. Good luck!!
2006-10-11 14:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by denpita 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gee I wonder why -- I mean Looks and Money!! Come on!!
(My 2 stepsons have both good looks and money -- I hope you're all looking at them!! Subject to MY approval, of course!)
2006-10-11 14:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by cat lady 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont look for money I mean I would like them to have money but not buy everything I want with the money they have.
2006-10-11 14:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It started when men decided to only go for girls with blonde hair, big boobs and hot bodies.
2006-10-11 14:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They are all whores who only want the money.
2006-10-11 14:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
gairls like rich personalities to go with..
2006-10-11 14:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by prashant 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
certainly not me....
2006-10-11 14:25:46 · answer #10 · answered by shaffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋